"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ya, I'm one of the short guys out there.

wavejams007

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Originally posted by comote

Anyways we can sit here and complain about it all day or we can work on the parts of our game we actually have control over.
Exactly. I am 5'6" and while I wish I was taller, I am stronger then most people Iwill ever meet. I have confidence, and that is what makes the difference. Comote makes a good point.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Silverback82

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Originally posted by Jay-X


bullsh1t... i constantly hear people laughing about short muscular people... not to their face, because they are intimidated, but they make lots of fun of them
ever hear of a thing called jealousy:rolleyes:

insecure people always put down people that have something that they don't have

ever notice how ugly girls talk about the more popular prettier girls behind their backs?
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by Silverback82
ever hear of a thing called jealousy:rolleyes:

insecure people always put down people that have something that they don't have

ever notice how ugly girls talk about the more popular prettier girls behind their backs?

i was referring to ladies making fun of them, not only guys. and if you say 'that's because they think they are too good for them', why don't they make fun of tall muscular guys?
 

Silverback82

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Originally posted by Jay-X
i was referring to ladies making fun of them, not only guys. and if you say 'that's because they think they are too good for them', why don't they make fun of tall muscular guys?
it must be different in italy because it sure as hell isn't like that here

if you're happy being short and weak looking than good for you
 

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The height question, like so many others recurs on an ongoing and periodic basis, mostly because I think the new sosuavers don`t bother with doing a search.

HEIGHT DOESN`T MATTER.

Why? Because when she`s on her knees with her mouth open and saying "Ahh", it doesn`t matter how tall she is.

Why? Because when she`s on her knees and arching her back so her ass is in the air, and you`re tapping it, it doesn`t matter how tall she is.

Why? Because when she`s on her back and you`ve got her legs over your shoulders and have her arching her hips up to you in a deep penetration position and she`s yelling, "F#ck me harder!", it doesn`t matter how tall she is.

Get it?

What vision do you want for yourself? The guy who`s hung-up about his height or shagging senseless that amazon you have your eye on. GO FOR HER.

Don`t let anything stop you. There are going to be plently of external obstacles for you to overcome in your journey as a DJ. Don`t add any internal ones.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TubularBells28

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Originally posted by Jay-X
i was referring to ladies making fun of them, not only guys. and if you say 'that's because they think they are too good for them', why don't they make fun of tall muscular guys?
Wow, that was quite the dumb comment. Is someone jealous of we muscular short guys?
 

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Originally posted by TubularBells28
Wow, that was quite the dumb comment. Is someone jealous of we muscular short guys?
i can't get if you're trying to say i'm jealous of short muscular guys... in such case, there's no point in it, because i'm short and i want to be muscular... if you didn't mean that, please explain
 

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Originally posted by mroriginal
for the milionth time, height is not an issue.I am also 5'7 and dont have a problem about it.

this is true.

I'll be however that some girls have made him think otherwise.

Just find the girls that are under 5,7" that should be easy.
 

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has nothing to do with confidence, more about being insecure.

stop being insecure about your height, then confidence will show.
 

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These threads are WORTHLESS.
Besides..... the average male height is closer to 5'10" than 6'0" so stop arguing over this shi-t. If you don't believe me then look at a height chart (specifically look at the 50th percentile on there). Now if the average man is too short for most women then we're all fu-cked :rolleyes:
Being 5'7", I feel SLIGHTLY below average, but I see eye to eye with 95% of women and probably about 2/5 the men I know so what the hel-l are you talking about?
Unless you only like tall girls, it shouldn't present much of a problem. Of course there are girls who like tall guys but date the ones who don't, fu-ck the rest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I guess it goes to show; we're never satisfied. I'm about 5' 9 1/2" and I always think of myself as short.
 

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i was 5'8 at 17. Im about 5'10 now i would say (havent measured) but i dont think im done growing either... I got another inch in me i think.
 

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think about it this way: you short guys get more leverage for the doggy style :p
 

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Besides..... the average male height is closer to 5'10" than 6'0" so stop arguing over this shi-t. If you don't believe me then look at a height chart (specifically look at the 50th percentile on there).
Like I already pointed out, that must take into account all the ethnicities that I either barely encounter or don't consider "competition". Take little Pedro out of the equation and the average probably goes up a couple inches. (i'm not racist!).

Seriously, they say the average height for males in this country is around 5'9-5'10, but in reality, you see a lot more guys taller than that height than shorter.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Criminal Mind
You know... it is proven scientifically that taller men get better jobs and live longer, but that's prolly because they don't fret about being short.
OMG that's so Groucho Marx! :)
 

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Everyone will find a flaw in their body, hyperbolize it and then consider themselves worthless because of it.

Those who get over it are the winners. Those who won't are losers.
 

pimpfromdayone

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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
Like I already pointed out, that must take into account all the ethnicities that I either barely encounter or don't consider "competition". Take little Pedro out of the equation and the average probably goes up a couple inches. (i'm not racist!).

Seriously, they say the average height for males in this country is around 5'9-5'10, but in reality, you see a lot more guys taller than that height than shorter.
"The report [by CDC), Mean Body Weight, Height, and Body Mass Index (BMI) 1960-2002: United States, shows that the average height of a man aged 20-74 years increased from just over 5'8" in 1960 to 5'9½" in 2002, while the average height of a woman the same age increased from slightly over 5'3" 1960 to 5'4" in 2002.

Meanwhile, the average weight for men aged 20-74 years rose dramatically from 166.3 pounds in 1960 to 191 pounds in 2002, while the average weight for women the same age increased from 140.2 pounds in 1960 to 164.3 pounds in 2002."


I am willing to bet the average height in America is still around 5'10" as I already stated. I will probably top out at 5'9" as the doctor predicted (late grower), but as far as I'm concerned I am still just one generation younger than those they measured in 1960 since I have older parents, so I still consider myself completely average. Motherfu-ckers have gotten taller, bigger, and fatter these last few decades....
LOOK at those weight numbers for WOMEN!!! Holy shi-t. I don't know about you but these days the "average" woman is too fu-cking big for my tastes. I don't see how the fu-ck some girl just over 5' tall is weighing 165 lbs... dam-n. Now, hopefully the height thing has been put to rest. I will start a small di-ck thread if anyone else is interested in that :rolleyes:

Oh btw, since America's population is now comprised largely of African Americans, many of whom are quite tall, your ethnicity argument holds no water there.
 

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Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
Take little Pedro out of the equation and the average probably goes up a couple inches. (i'm not racist!).
I remember this kid named pedro who went to my highschool even though he was 5'6, all the hot looking girls even the tall ones wanted him because he was really goodlooking. you see my point is if your short make up with goodlooks and game. girls would prefer a short goodlooking guy over a tall average looking guy.

end of discussion

seriously STOP BEING INSECURE ABOUT YOUR HEIGHT! Jay x your 5'9 not 4'9
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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