"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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****y ****y ****Y

Ian Gots Game

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Probably every girl I've ever been interested in has said it. All girls I know that I've never had interest in have said it. 50% jokingly, 40% not joking, 10% angrily.

"You are so ****y, I can't even take it"

Or something to that effect.

Has it happened to y'all?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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[]D [] []V[] []D

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yes!!!

this is how I personally think to fix it...

-Act ****y AND funny, not ****y and then funny

[There's a big difference]

And ive toned down my ****iness, yet ive become a lil AFCish again....(like i dun use enough ****y anymore)

For me, instead of saying things like

"Im so sexy"
"All the b1atches go for me"
"I had tons of girlsfriends waiting for me"

I say...

"are you dazzled by my good looks already?"
"I'm not easy"
etc.

I toned my ****yness down but im not getting the results anymore :p

...............................................................

Maybe this is one of those things that work for only the hottest of hot girls, and not for everyone. For example, 20 out of 100 girls might react to your ****yness positively and then other 80 wont...
 

DJ-TrickY

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If you still think your c&f are balanced out, maybe your busting the ****y on her about the same thing repetitively. It loses its effectiveness if you only bust her about your good looks all the time. Thats what makes it predictable and annoying.
 

Jerky Boi

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Your problem: You're thinking about it too much. If you're not ****y naturally, you shouldn't try it. But like everyone else said, there's a word for being overly ****y: conceited. FUNNY FUNNY FUNNY. You'll be fine :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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fatkins

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I get more girls calling me a jerk then ****y, but yea if I don't care for them I am a jerk.
 

arutha

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I've been called arrogant a few times, thats worse than ****y I think... It was usually in a joking way though.

So turn the comments into jokes.
 

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Most girls who can't take a joke like to call you ****y because they have a stick up their ass which you shouldn't care for. XD
 

Vincent

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I've been called ****y.

"Well you are ****y, but I find it funny"

Best compliment I've ever gotten :cheer: :cheer:
 
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