hi all there.. hope you guys are having fun..recently i have been gaming with a hot babe (hb 9) and things are going well.. but this ***** is so ****y and everytime she is flattering herself ...like" im so beatiful, people call me baby doll whatever..what she is trying to do? and im always neg-hitting on her which makes her mad.. how to shut up her mouth? any ideas?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
****y girls?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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My guess she is showing value to you.
continue to make fun of her and neg her, since she is so used to having guys kiss her ass she is now advertising it.
Her :"im so beatiful, people call me baby doll"
You: "that is such a good Paris Hilton impression, can I please have your autograph your royal heiness?"
Her :"im so beatiful, people call me baby doll"
You: "that is such a good Paris Hilton impression, can I please have your autograph your royal heiness?"
Yeah, he beat me to it.DJDamage said:
Just continue negging and using ****y and Funny, she's so used to it, you will be a challenge to her, you will be different from other guys, and she'll find you more attractive, she won't know how to handle you.
Ll Principe
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Continue to neg hit her like its been mentioned before my Lust and DJDamage.
I would like to point out that it wouldnt be such a bad idea to actually compliment compliment her. What I mean is well lets just assume for example sake that you are a good looking guy now most good looking guys I know at one stage in their lives go through an "arrogant" stage and seek approval, confidence, compliments. So what do people do? They tend to boast, they tend to "show off" what they got, they speak with a suave, they speak with an arrogance, they send out pictures seeking approval etc.
My thoughts suggest she is going through this phase, what the Don Juan way says it to neg-hit, those kind of things, put her down from her "pedestal", but once in a while , make sure the MOMENT and TIMING is right, give her a compliment
see what happens.
I would like to point out that it wouldnt be such a bad idea to actually compliment compliment her. What I mean is well lets just assume for example sake that you are a good looking guy now most good looking guys I know at one stage in their lives go through an "arrogant" stage and seek approval, confidence, compliments. So what do people do? They tend to boast, they tend to "show off" what they got, they speak with a suave, they speak with an arrogance, they send out pictures seeking approval etc.
My thoughts suggest she is going through this phase, what the Don Juan way says it to neg-hit, those kind of things, put her down from her "pedestal", but once in a while , make sure the MOMENT and TIMING is right, give her a compliment
see what happens."She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm guessing your being C&F with her? This has happened a few times to me with some really good looking girls. I think it's because when your constantly putting yourself higher than her, she feels like she has to climb back up higher than you. Just C&F her ****iness by making fun of what she says.
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neg htis would be perfect
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You can just ignore her self-boasting comments, act a bit disinterested whenever she starts flattering herself. Like if you are sitting down at a restaurant or whatever, look away as if you are looking for a waiter or smth else as soon as she starts that sh*t. Switch topics, don't even acknowledge her self boasting, cause she expects a reaction, which is what she got from 95% of the guys when she talked like that.
Mix it up with C&F and neg-hits, but it seems like other guys have tried that on her before. So she may smell your game.
Mix it up with C&F and neg-hits, but it seems like other guys have tried that on her before. So she may smell your game.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
wooow thanks guys all of you....seems like we are in the same track.. im really doing a good job.. you know what, i think the other guys are drooling in front of her..she is fcvking right coz there are thousand of losers out there...thats why she gets confidence and being ****y.. but once she gets that you are different than others, you are obviously in the game...
all the best
all the best