"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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****y & Funny

Jerry Maguire

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For such an apparently important technique, there doesn't seem to be much written about C&F on this site.
I've looked through the DJ Bible and there only seems to be one article about it.
I've also searched the boards with limited success.
I know there's a thread about C&F responses to certain questions but with all respect, I feel the thread is limited.

So, could someone point me in the direction of some good C&F tips, articles and general 'how to's? Be it either on this website or another.

Note I don't have any money so I can't pay for any books etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fender

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In the DJ bible, look for "weapons of mass seduction"

One of the chapters talks about ****y n funny...GREAT stuff. Go have a look.
 
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