"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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****Y & FUNNY WORKS!!......... If the Female is bad quality.

DiskJockey

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I have a theory that the more a girl likes Bad Boy Billy Bob Humpledink the Bikey the more... I dunno imature / retarded she is. I just used to want a hot ***** but now I like some generall common sence. I meen these hot chicks that get seduced by arrogant fagots.. Its not so bad when their 16 to 20 but after a decade you would think they would want a quality quy.
I like modest people.

I think there are quality women out there that do like nice guys though as long as there not a chump or a wuss... arn't there.

Or do 99% of them just want some hard fast dirty bum sex with an Alpha stranger?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tsmith2334

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I don't disagree. At least, I hope not every good looking girl goes for the first guy that "approaches" her with "neg hits". :trouble:

It can be okay when it's done right, but guys typically overuse it or do it completely wrong.
 

Aragon034

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What teh deuce?

DiskJockey said:
I have a theory that the more a girl likes Bad Boy Billy Bob Humpledink the Bikey the more... I dunno imature / retarded she is. I just used to want a hot ***** but now I like some generall common sence. I meen these hot chicks that get seduced by arrogant fagots.. Its not so bad when their 16 to 20 but after a decade you would think they would want a quality quy.
I like modest people.

I think there are quality women out there that do like nice guys though as long as there not a chump or a wuss... arn't there.

Or do 99% of them just want some hard fast dirty bum sex with an Alpha stranger?
Dude, you sound bitter. "Arrogant Fagots" is a bit extreme.

Sure there are quality women out there who have that common sense, The issue is when was the last time common sense was a common thing?

i'd honestly say, that if it came down to it, not 99% but the majority of women in the western world want a hard fast and exciting **** with an Alpha.

Reasons? it's been said, social change, women in teh workplace, feminism, whatever you want to blame.It's here and it's not about to change.

You sound like you want a quality woman for a LTR, but LTR don't just happen, there has to be a spark that starts a passionate flame like that.

C&F is my specialty, i'm naturally an a-hole and comedian so all i have to do is tone it down tp teasing, and add some sexuality and i get great interest from all sorts of chicks. Even older ones.

I agree that a relationship can't be based on it, but it can be started by it.
 
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