"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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.....a complete shift from this jerk type to the sweet type. OMG, this will get you crazy good results. Don't forget this. Here, field example today:

In my chem class, me, another guy, and a girl work as a group. This guy increases the c&f, neg hits, and just the overall jerk attitude twords this girl all the time. I decided, why not, I follow his lead and neg hit her on how she cant tell what the difference between colors of the chemicals. We both poured the c&f on this girl. Then she says to me, I thought you were the nice one in the group (gag) so I said nice guys finish last. The other guy got soo deep in the jerk mode that he was becoming a absolute pain in the ass. So the class is almost over and he goes back to his seat while the girl who not only does all the work for us but also cleans up. So I decided to go from the c&f to the sweet guy and put her goggles away for her really nicley. Ya know, in that sweet voice:yes: . Then shes back in her seat blowing off the other guy in the group, sitting there, and sticks her tounge out at me in a playful way and I just smiled at her. You gotta remember to switch it up....dont forget this.:rockon:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know what you saying, playa. It adds to the depth of your character and makes you unpredictable
 
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