Y do women think u have stability with them if you live on your own?

[YoungSir4sho]

I talked to my ex cuz she called me the other day. We stay keep gettin bac together back and orth since feb of this year to now. I kept telling her that I will get my own place soon but still haven't. I mean I want my own place but I would like to have my own car 1st n since it cost a lot in nyc for a place I rather save up more.

My ex told me y she aint wit me now is cuz she needs stabiliy aka security. I still live wit my fam. No car. I just work right now, its an iight job being a doorman getting 16 dollars an hour.
She told me straight up. I need to get out of my mom house and get my own place. I told her I will just wait if u love me den y not stick thru da whole way. She said that she is tired o struggling n that she would get bac wit me once I have my own place lol. I then hung up.
What I wanna know is wat does me having my own place = security for her? Also I have goals of playing oversea basketball so I am focused

 

[[S]alvatore]

So for her to get back with you, you must have your own place? Definentely sounds like she loves you for you. Stay away from this ho, and save yourself a lot of hassle in the future.

 

[hanson]

Does she have her own place?

I was in a situation like yours, my ex girlfriend kept asking to move into an apartment together (we both lived with our parents). I told her why, we both need to wait til we get our lives straight otherwise we'll be living in a ****ty apartment with nothing for acouple months til we have to move back in with our parents. Besides i slept in her bed every night and we ****ed with her parents in the next room.

 

[YoungSir4sho]

1. I already realized that about her which is y I hung up. Im not trying to get back with her becuz she is not worth it.

2. Lol I feel u man. Nah she lives wit her dad n brother. Wats even more funnier tho is that she is 40... yea I kno 40. I thought she was aroun my age till she lied n told me that she was 40 n had a few kids which is grown now. She told me that like 3 months ago lmao.

Newayz yea that is the exact reason y I don't have my own place. Like I fi did then eitha almost all of my money will go into it and not that much on me. Or ill b goin bac to my parents house n I don't wanna do that. So I firgue I mind as well save... tho I haven't started saving yet but that's besides the point.

Is it some magical thing if u tell girls dat u live by urself. Then they think u have a real good life? Wat if I did but had a roommate or was strugglin having my own apt? How would she know if I didn't tell her that?