"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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****y and funny

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I'm very interested in using this ****y+funny. So please post your success/failure stories related to using it, and your views on it.

Anyway I don't have problems being ****y i mean who does? but funny is not that easy for me
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So pimp its scary

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****y & funny is good in the attraction phase...

Concentrate on the funny MORe than the ****y.

Too many stories to tell, c&f is engrained into my personality.
 

ethnomethodologist

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If your funny, the ****y will come naturally if your not afraid of the girl and of what you see as her problems. Laugh AT her, and she will only get angry though, if it's just being cruel for no reason.

How about you also do a search, or spend some time searching around. david deangelo may have pointed you in the right direction, but he is not the second coming of christ. He is a smart man, no big genius, or he wouldn't be looking for any money.

Look for things that are funny, KNOW why they are funny, and be HONEST with people. THAT is where the real magic comes from.
 

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Don't try to be "****y & funny," or chances are, you'll just come across as a dorky azzhole.

But if it comes naturally, run with it. Let the smartass in you shine through. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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