"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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**** ****y and Funny

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lesmaray

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Mike32ct said:
C&f is overrated and overused IMO.

Being playful in general is great.

But trying to constantly turn every conversation or texting session into some c&f routine gets old.
yeah i really can't stand all this ****y funny being a challenge stuff,i don't see the point in doing that stuff,i think you just have to be naturally funny.what really irritates me is that this stuff is like everywhere when you do a google search,they always tell you to be some bad boy or a jerk or whatever i just wanna be a nice person.I really don't like the seduction community.
 

plate's_empty

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Mike32ct said:
C&f is overrated and overused IMO.

Being playful in general is great.

But trying to constantly turn every conversation or texting session into some c&f routine gets old.
Yep. DD helped me out in the past when I was trying to get back on track. I was faithful to it for this reason. He has some great ideas, and a good philosophy. But the constant C&F can be very annoying to women, as I have learned, and which has been confirmed on this forum :)
 

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most dudes overdo it and it's painfully + embarassingly easy to spot the guys using it who read about it on "game" and pua sites.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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