"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am at this summer camp right now, i am a teen, and there is this one girl that is literally making all the pathetic AFCs fall for her. Now i think that i have made myself something of value since i didn't approach her and rather treated her with contempt or disdain, she is calling me" omg your so rude" but i know its like nothing more than a petty comment. Now what would be the correct way to respond to this and to start making my move? should i pull ****y and funny or what? i want her to want my sh&t. and what are ****y and funny comments? this girl imo is only like a 6
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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theres not "one line"

dude treat her with indifference rather than contempt, be unreactive to her sh.it


it would be more beneficial for you (and easier for us) to say what ideas you have thought/think you could do in this situation (we could tell you yes or suggest improvements) than just others telling you and you trying to follow it to the letter (furthermore coz we may just end up repeating to you the basics you already know and it will also give you confidence in your skills for the future )

kingxxxman said:
this girl ino is only a 6
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this dont matter as looks are relative and so if every other girl is ugly this "6" takes the role of the HB10 (and gets all the AFC affections)
 
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okay, i think the best choice is to be indifferent since i have been like really rude sometimes but im makin more comments that put me higher on a pedestal while lowering her. and what are ****y and funny lines and when is the right time to use them?
 
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