****y and funny- always works?

[wavejams007]

All right, question for you all. I am working on this girl at school right now. She thinks I am really funny, and I know I am confident enough, but she still doesn't want to go out with me. She sends a lot of mixed signals, like going to the wieght room with me only to watch me work out really, then acts quite indifferent when I am around her sometimes. She turned me down in an invitation to the prom, but then asked one of my friens if I was mad or anything. What should be expected to come of this? Should i just next her, and why, or is there still any hope, and why? Thanks.

 

[Michael Chief]

You should have already "nexted" her.
Only when she comes chasing YOU, should you make the choice of whether or not you will accept her into your reality.

IMO, C+F can be quite difficult to use in high school. It can still be loads of fun, but the maturity levels of alot of high schoolers cannot handle it (for both the male and female).
Plus, it's quite difficult to balance ****y and funny for some people. I suggest sprinkling C+F around here and there, but don't overdo it.
I think "Confident and Playful" is easier. (Thundercat)

 

[skinnydart]

When she asks (assuming she does) if she can go with you to watch you work out just simply say "no".

 

[Alpha_Animal]

C&F should not be a massive part of your ability to get women. It is one technique to help you get women. It is possible that if you are good looking/really alpha that you may have used too much C&F. BBs site has an article on C&F that you may be interested in.

Animal