"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mustfirstregister

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It's xmas time. do you think it would be more productive to PUA during this time or should I wait after new years?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lots of loneliness this time of year. Take advantage of it. Xmas eve, and night most girls out will be single and lonely, waiting for a xmas miracle, lol.
 

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horaholic said:
Lots of loneliness this time of year. Take advantage of it. Xmas eve, and night most girls out will be single and lonely, waiting for a xmas miracle, lol.
What are the best venues for taking advantage of this?
 

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I'm thinking bars and clubs, but parties would work too.
If you're in college, there will be a lot of vacationers. Chicks away from there BF's, and lonely as hell. A friend of mine bangs a lot of strippers, and he calls X-mas, and thxgiving 'runaway night.' Anyone stripping on those nights are most likely single, and have no family, and are easily gamed.
 
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