XANEUS gets PUd by a stripper

XANEUS

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I went to a strip club with my wing last night to work on our
stripper game because if you can pull from there, IMO you can pull
from anywhere as long as logistics don't **** you up. I wore an
extremely flashy hat as a prop to be absolutely sure we got opened.
We planted ourselves at a table in a high traffic area and waited for
the games to begin. Ideally, the strip club should have been dead
which it DEFINITELY was not. This posed a problem, but in the end,
not in insurmountable one.
For a few minutes as we talked amongst ourselves, it looked as though
we might not get opened, but then one of the dancers (HBStripperFace
8.5) came over and told me someone was going to steal my hat, so it
might as well be her. She asked if she could wear it, so I went into
immediate qualification mode:

"You have to be very special to wear this hat"
"Maybe… if you pass my test"
"Ooh… I see, you just like me for my hat"

Unable to come up with adequate responses at this point, she fell
back on her social 10 status with "would you like a dance?"

I busted her customer frame, and got her sitting to take my test. I
ran the girlfriend test (which of course I would NEVER explicitly
call by that name this early in a sarge), then threw a bunch of
frames of her being dangerous and just out to take advantage of me
and my friend. Weird thing was I didn't have to even throw hard
negs. The hardest neg I did was when I gestured to give her my hat
for a 30 second trial period, and then pulled it away since she
was "getting all grabby" and made her re-earn it. Somehow the
subject of childhood memories came up, so I went into the anchoring
DHV routine which absolutely captivated her. Cue the IOIs.

After a few more minutes, she had to go on stage, but on her way to
the stage, she turned and begged for the hat on stage. I walked over
melodramatically and handed it to her where all the club could see
with, "but you'd better give it back." Now she was locked in.

In her on stage interval, another stripper (HBSweet 8) came by and
asked if we'd like a dance. We broke her customer frame as well, and
made her sit with us and try to convince us that she was sweet and
innocent deep down. It was fun and good social proof.

HBStripperface came over to return the hat and we blatantly ignored
her while talking to the HBSweet. She then asked for the hat back so
she could make more money… I told her she really needed to get some
clothing of HER OWN, but in the end I relented because legitimately
she went up to a 9 with the hat on.

After HBSweet had to go dance, HBStripperface came back and
practically BEGGED me to tell her more about anchoring. It was a
lucky topic for me to have stumbled upon.

This is where it gets WEIRD. She has one very negative childhood
anchor, so when I told her how to set and change anchors, she
literally started crying. She had to change the subject like 5
different times throughout the night because crying is bad for
business.

She got super-effusive and would NOT shut up about how amazing I was
and how I was a godsend to her, and how she's been working on this
problem and now I'm like an angel sent to her with the solution etc.
Very freaky… like to the point where I felt like if I said anything
not 100% nice I could blow her out at any moment. She was totally
fragile.

I've gotten good, or even great reactions and legit IOIs from
strippers before, but nothing like this. Still, the problem in these
situations is trying to close. Most strippers (I believe) have a
very strict personal policy about not seeing people who come into the
club. There was no way I could close her, so I had to wait for her
to close me.

At one point she started to realize just how far into state she was,
and how sexually powerless I'd made her, so she started **** testing
me about how without the hat she wouldn't notice me cause I'm so
average looking, and how nothing about me stands out. I did a
backturn, but she still kept going, so eventually, I turned around,
looked her straight in the eyes like a disappointed parent, and
said "glad I could be average for you."

She literally burst into tears and ran away into the back room.

So I was thinking to myself, "****, how the **** did THAT blow her
out?!" I was discussing it with my wing who assured me that I wasn't
blown out.

About five minutes later, she came back over to our table and
apologized for like five minutes and told me repeatedly about how I
was SOO amazing and how she'd called her friend to tell her that
she'd met the most amazing person who she could just talk to on a
level like she'd never been able to with anyone before etc. She kept
dropping hints about how I'd be a part of her life forever, and how
she wished we could talk so much more and get to know eachother.

I played this down for the most part, but at one point I did say, "we
should get together some other time"… which I think ALMOST blew me
out again. At that point she said she had to "go make money" but
that she'd be back. Again though, my wing assured me that it was
still ON. Thanks dude. You may be semi-newbie, but you rock.

I KNEW she was literally IN LOVE with me, but I also knew I could not
close, so what was I to do. I was wracking my brain. Fortunately I
didn't have to worry about it. She came back, tried massively hard
to qualify herself to me for like half an hour, and then number
closed me. I resisted the close, and then finally acquiesced like
the sixth time she hinted at it (by this time, the hints were pretty
blatant). She started quizzing me about whether I had a girlfriend
who would be jealous if we hung out sometime, or asking me what kinds
of thinks I like to do, and telling me how much she liked each and
every one as well, and how much she'd love to come see me play soccer
etc… So basically after getting the number, I listened to her
compliment me for like 20 minutes straight and then we said our
goodbyes. On the way out, she gave me the extensive treatise on when
would be good times to call her and how I should keep calling if I
didn't get through at first because she doesn't turn her phone on all
the time etc.

My wing assures me it's solid. Hey, he was right about everything
else.

I don't know if I really want to follow through, though it would be
phenomenal practice. In any case, I think it was a decent sarge even
if it was a bit lucky.

One question though: This girl is like an 8.5. There's a girl in
the same club who is a legitimate 10. I want the 10. Is there any
way I could have had choice in this situation. I mean really, it was
all just a matter of which girl came over to my table. Is there any
way in future I can set it up I get the one I really wanted? Anyone
who has experience with this?

Cheers,
XANEUS
 

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Interesting read, nice one.

Could you explain what "going into the anchoring
DHV routine which absolutely captivated her. Cue the IOIs." is all about? DHV? IOIs? I haven't come accross these yet.
 

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First, You sound like pap with all of your double secret probation iou's, cia's, fbi's, and hug closed geek-boy language. Can someone get me a translator?

Secondly, why are you putting so much effort into a stripper? If trying to score with std infested *****s is your idea of a good time..more power to ya.

By the way, I have to go to a costume party next week...can i borrow your Michael jackson hat? Does it come with matching sequined white glove?
 
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Sorry I have no experience in getting a hor at a stripper club...you and your game is no one and nothing special...hors love everybody!

Now you want this girls friend who is hotter than her - that's going to work out well.:rolleyes:
 

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First of all, Fiedler, what are you still doing on this site? You don't need a translator, you need a clue...or someone to come over there and tell your mother that you shouldn't be allowed on the internet without supervision.

Is this a classy strip-joint, or just a hole-in-the-wall dive? In a decent club, it's rather hard to pull a girl's number, mainly because of the expectation she's already formulated that you are a "customer" by virtue of you even being in there. In a sleazy joint, it might be a little...erhm..."looser."

It sounds like you caught a basket-case to tell you the truth. This one was particularly vulnerable because she's f'ed up in the head. It'd be funny to see if you could make it work at all.

I actually got a stripper's number once, but when I called her, she started acting all weird. Turns out she quit her job at the club and I think she was looking to get away from me because I was associated with "that place."

As far as branching from the 8.5 to the 10...all I can say is GOOD LUCK. Cuz you'll need A LOT of it to be able to go in there, use this girl (who's emotionally psycho over you) as a pivot to get to another girl who didn't even approach you, all this while not seeming like a "regular" at the club or some kind of stripper-loving p00nhound.

Not saying it can't be done, but GOOD LUCK.
 

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Well props to you for picking up a stripper in a place where all men are horny dogs.

But this is a PRIME example, how alot of men give women gold status (based only on looks alone) and disregard everything else about them

Strippers are trouble. Most use drugs, have little moral scruples about relationships or flaunting your ass for the world to see, most have MAJOR self esteem problems and actually enjoy all the attention they get, others are gold diggers who would do anything for money.


Yet they all come across as "victims" who want some guy to come into the joint and "save" them from themselves

and when they meet some AFC who is willing to be this girls "hero", she will use him and spit him out like a pumpkin seed

In a stripclub, strippers feel like masters of their domain, they are godesses who all the men are salivating for. But take them out of their surrounding and you will discover what emotional wrecks they really are.

Dont waste your time, keep the number as a momento of your DJ prowess, but dont ever involve yourself with these women unless you are prepared to give, give, give and never get
 
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ManOMan, great insight!
 

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I was counting...

You looked to your wingman for validation at least three times.
And your recount reads like you looking to us for validation.
Your game will improve when you don't need to do that.

Picking up women isn't hard. Basically everyone does it.
Sure some are better than others but its like saying you the best at mowing a lawn, maybe you are maybe you aren't but everyone manages to mow their own lawn sooner or later.

Imagine somene coming and bragging about how they mowed this one lawn. It was crab grass you know if you can mow crab grass you can mow anything. Doesn't sound quite right does it?



"Do what you want, but if it doesn't make you happy do something else. "--ME =)
 

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I think X did very well in PU a stripper. A lot of people on this site focus on getting a relationship. I don't think that's the case with X here.

Just because she is a head case, or whatever negative associations you have with strippers don't really matter, because I don't think X wants her to be his girlfriend.

Strippers are trouble. Most use drugs, have little moral scruples about relationships or flaunting your ass for the world to see, most have MAJOR self esteem problems and actually enjoy all the attention they get, others are gold diggers who would do anything for money.

You cannot just lump some girl in a category. How many strippers have you dated?

In a stripclub, strippers feel like masters of their domain, they are godesses who all the men are salivating for. But take them out of their surrounding and you will discover what emotional wrecks they really are.

I think he is refining his skills so that when that special girl comes along, he has all the necessary skills to make that girl his, as opposed to posting a whining post about how the girl played him.

What most people don't realise is that strippers throw a lot of fake interests to guys in order to sucker them in. Learning how to PU a stripper in HER DOMAIN is a valuable yet transferrable skill.

Keep us (me) informed as to how you progress.
 

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It seems like this "NLP" stuff don't really work like they say it should work.

Instead of directly influencing the "target" girl, it seems like many of the guys just use it as a type of magic-trick to get attention.

It's all good though...

Anyway, I don't think strip clubs are the hardest place to pick up girls at all. All you gotta do is have something "going on" after hours, and make sure the girl isn't like 30 years old or something.

Usually, if you are a young, decent looking guy, the girls will either stay completely away from you (intimidated), or try to hang out with you. Of course, this depends on the age of the girl. You ain't gonna pick up no stripper that looks better than the chicks you usually get.

If you catch one on a good day, she might even try to pick you up without you doing much of anything!

Very expensive place to try to get girls though.
 

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Originally posted by Jay Fiedler
First, You sound like pap with all of your double secret probation iou's, cia's, fbi's, and hug closed geek-boy language. Can someone get me a translator?

Secondly, why are you putting so much effort into a stripper? If trying to score with std infested *****s is your idea of a good time..more power to ya.

By the way, I have to go to a costume party next week...can i borrow your Michael jackson hat? Does it come with matching sequined white glove?
Why don't you post one of your own reports showing us how it's done without geekboy stuff Fiedler? Being that you're the man, I'm sure you could show up these ASF morons anyday right?
 

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XANEUS: is your mission to bring as many noobs to ASF as you possibly can?

You knew you wouldn't get a good reply to this report here. Was it posted just to brag?
 

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originally posted by: Ice Cold

XANEUS: is your mission to bring as many noobs to ASF as you possibly can?

You knew you wouldn't get a good reply to this report here. Was it posted just to brag?
No Doubt...some parts of that story are kinda shady too....
 

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Originally posted by XANEUS

One question though: This girl is like an 8.5. There's a girl in
the same club who is a legitimate 10. I want the 10. Is there any
way I could have had choice in this situation. I mean really, it was
all just a matter of which girl came over to my table. Is there any
way in future I can set it up I get the one I really wanted? Anyone
who has experience with this?

Cheers,
XANEUS
Nice FR XANEUS. Use the 8.5 to get the 10. Most strippers are Bi. If she is then good. First get the 8.5. You have already made a connection. She will be willing to please you. Ask for a 3-some after you have established a more solid foundation with the 8.5. Tell the 8.5 that it would fufill your biggest fantasy. tell her it would just be a physical thing that you would like to happen. Reassure her that she will always be number 1.
 
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