"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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X-Mas present for my geeky girlfriend

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diceman

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Hey everyone,

I need some help. I can't think of a good present to get my girlfriend!
She's kinda geeky, likes star trek, horror films, cheesy 80s cartoons, Alan Rickman, Jason Issics, Roxy music & kinky sex.

What the hell can i get her????? Also, it has to be quite cheap as i'm skint.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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deep space nine dvd, maybe season 3 -- that's when the Dominion shows up

get it off amazon tho, it's way cheaper than in stores
 
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Yeah, i wanted something a little more imaginative. I mean, she is the 1st girlfriend i've had during the Christmas period, & we've been goin' out for, like, 8 months. I have no experience of buying gfs 'special' presents.

I don't just want to get her a DVD or an album or jewellery.. they're just lazy presents that anyone can get. I want something original.. but i'm a little low on ideas. I thought, this forum having the very best seducers & everyone here being the stuff of girls dreams, some of you could have some ideas & suggestions for a great x-mas present she'll never forget (on a budget!).

Thanks.
 
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i think a few sites have gift guides for geeky girlfriends... try gizmodo.com or engadget.com ... if you want something less geeky, check out outblush.com

i'm sure there's something on the internets she'll enjoy :D
 
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If she likes Starwars, get her and yourself one of those lightsabers each... and a Senator Amidala mask for her :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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