"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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X-Mas Calling

HollowHorizon

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I really like this girl i would say a hb7.5 and i'm not shure if calling her would make me look stupid, This girl, isen't the nice innocent girl, You know she intimidates men, Except for me i'm not afaid to make the phone call, I was wondering how it would make my charecter look. I don't want to be too nice :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Skel

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She gave you her number? What does this have to do with xmas?
If your thinking of calling a girl you have never called before on xmas you can forget it.
 

wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by HollowHorizon
I really like this girl i would say a hb7.5 and i'm not shure if calling her would make me look stupid, This girl, isen't the nice innocent girl, You know she intimidates men, Except for me i'm not afaid to make the phone call, I was wondering how it would make my charecter look. I don't want to be too nice :D
How'd you get her number? If you didn't go into the phone book and look it up like some sort of creep you could be ok. Tell her next time you see her that you'll call her so the situation doesn't get weird.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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