"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wyldfire you totally correct

IRONMAN22

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like I wrote in my own post, "try not to care so much"... the only real reason we have all of these SHE-MALES, and it all points to this one fact, American Society, jocks, players- are that for a reason: family, nerds losers ect: reason: family...

guys if you want to get down to the bottom of the situation, you must cause enough spark for CHANGE!, FIGHT! BE MEN OF ACTION! and youll find yourself so much more mature, and 10x the player.

correct me if Im wrong, but I know Im not :cool:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oh god:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

i think i'm gona puke:(

no, i got a better idea, maybe I'll start my own tread about Wyldfire.:crackup: :crackup: ,

get a life bro.
 

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no

I think there should be a Wyldfire forum:cheer:
 

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:down: she-males she-males.... I care for you guys and this is what I get? If you gentlemen were really worth respecting you wouldnt have bashed me, because INFACT you have NOTHING on me, you mustve been losers before, bc someone with half a brain would NOT have bahed me :down: again Im here to help try to write that down, or just remember that... again :down:
 

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take it easy, no ones bashing ya man. I actually like what you said, it's just that a rule of sosuave is that you can't create a message specifically desinged for another member u have to PM them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yes you made a revolutionary discovery, MY GOD, HAW COULD I BE SO BLIND!!!!!:down:

QUIT YOUR ATTENTION WHORING KID.
 

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I'm not quite sure what Ironman is trying to say in this thread, to be honest with you. Apparenlty something I wrote fired him up enough that he wanted to respond. Perhaps he accidentally hit "new thread" instead of "reply"?
 

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Its threads like these that make this forum crappy.

Ironman's crap is all stuff you can find in the bible and in the tips page. We've all heard it a hundred times.

Do you actually think by u telling me 'not to care', im going to drop everything and just take your word for it ? You find these forums one month ago and now you decide that since u have a revolutionary discovery, u need to give us tips ? What u say is correct to a DEGREE.

Sorry bro, I've been on this site for a year and u dont see me giving out tips left and right b/c I've found something new that works.

Ironman, Spider wouldnt have bashed u if he hadn't heard that crap a million times before. I'm sure most of us have heard it before. The fact that your so quick to bash Spider tells me that your an attention ***** like Spider said.


I just dont understand why so many of u try to impress us on the internet ? Impressing us will do nothing for u, I just dont understand it.
 
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