"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
iqqi
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Wyldfire was banned for being a girl. And because the "neutral moderator" Rollo did not like her.
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She turned every thread into the Wyldfyre show and p!ssed off tons of the members as a result so the admin removed her from the premises.
Basically she did what iqqi does now in that regard but since iqqi is a smoother troll she is still unfortunately with us.
Real contributing female members like Penkitten, LovelyLady, WaterTiger and others who come here to help out and share wisdom and not stir up sh!t like iqqi and wyldfyre get along well on the site but most Wyldfyre and iqqi threads are/were filled with needless conflict generated to stir up trouble and give these two infamous posters their needed drama fix for the day.
Basically she did what iqqi does now in that regard but since iqqi is a smoother troll she is still unfortunately with us.
Real contributing female members like Penkitten, LovelyLady, WaterTiger and others who come here to help out and share wisdom and not stir up sh!t like iqqi and wyldfyre get along well on the site but most Wyldfyre and iqqi threads are/were filled with needless conflict generated to stir up trouble and give these two infamous posters their needed drama fix for the day.
What you have to understand kontroller and you make some great points is that if Wyldfyre was a guy and if iqqi was a guy she would not last 2 months on sosuave. But the mods and the Leader of sosuave let them stay because of there female gender and I really don't understand why.KontrollerX said:She turned every thread into the Wyldfyre show and p!ssed off tons of the members as a result so the admin removed her from the premises.
Basically she did what iqqi does now in that regard but since iqqi is a smoother troll she is still unfortunately with us.
Real contributing female members like Penkitten, LovelyLady, WaterTiger and others who come here to help out and share wisdom and not stir up sh!t like iqqi and wyldfyre get along well on the site but most Wyldfyre and iqqi threads are/were filled with needless conflict generated to stir up trouble and give these two infamous posters their needed drama fix for the day.
The best way to get rid of trolls like this is not pay attention to them. If everyone on this website was like me these brauds wouldn't last 10 days here. But instead we have feministic people that pay attention to her and crave any kind of attention they get from a girl. If me, you and her start the same thread she will have 100 AFC's helping her out, but they wouldn't help out one of there own. I wonder why?
iqqi
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The only real issue with me and Wyldfire is that we are opinionated, sometimes conflicting with certain members, and since we are women I guess that is some big deal and threatening to one's insecure masculinity. Wyldfire did not come here with the purpose of "stirring things up" and neither did I.KontrollerX said:She turned every thread into the Wyldfyre show and p!ssed off tons of the members as a result so the admin removed her from the premises.
Basically she did what iqqi does now in that regard but since iqqi is a smoother troll she is still unfortunately with us.
Real contributing female members like Penkitten, LovelyLady, WaterTiger and others who come here to help out and share wisdom and not stir up sh!t like iqqi and wyldfyre get along well on the site but most Wyldfyre and iqqi threads are/were filled with needless conflict generated to stir up trouble and give these two infamous posters their needed drama fix for the day.
I read some of the conflicts Wyld had here before she was banned, and it was absolutely shameful how bad some guys would team up on her, and post only insults basically stemming from her being a woman. It was really unfair, and instead of backing down she got overly emotional and was allowed to be backed into a corner so to speak, where she kept lashing back out and was eventually banned for being so "controversial".
An opinionated woman on sosuave I guess is highly controversial. Even one with such great accomplishments as she.
I don't really care what anyone thinks about me. I give advice where I see fit, and I speak out when I disagree with something or someone, if I think it is worth it, and that usually depends on whether or not I think some lurker is going to get onesided negative information on "all woman kind" from some bitter keyboard jockey resident of sosuave.
The past few months I have been here I have seen an upswing on the positive posts, and an awareness of the negative woman hating threads that were once prevalent. So I am happy.
Calling someone a troll is blatant flaming, and maybe you should look in the mirror before you call someone the vague and convenient insult/name troll and accuse them of stirring things up. I'll just go ahead and report that post of yours, instead of getting backed into a corner and lashing out, as requested by the more neutral mods of this site.
This is a direct insult to any member of sosuave who does not share your opinion towards "us brauds", and Allen himself for basically saying he is treating us differently in a good way solely due to our gender.lookyoung said:What you have to understand kontroller and you make some great points is that if Wyldfyre was a guy and if iqqi was a guy she would not last 2 months on sosuave. But the mods and the Leader of sosuave let them stay because of there female gender and I really don't understand why.
The best way to get rid of trolls like this is not pay attention to them. If everyone on this website was like me these brauds wouldn't last 10 days here. But instead we have feministic people that pay attention to her and crave any kind of attention they get from a girl. If me, you and her start the same thread she will have 100 AFC's helping her out, but they wouldn't help out one of there own. I wonder why?
I never understand why some guys let that one go. It is more insulting to them then it is to me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wasn't she the 40-something single mum with 4 kids from different ex-con fathers?iqqi said:An opinionated woman on sosuave I guess is highly controversial. Even one with such great accomplishments as she.
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