what's up yall. I've been visting this site for about a month on and off and decided that asking my homeboys (20-23) for help/ pointers just isn't going to work. I don't have much time right now, but i do have 1 question and a situation if anybody can help me.
1. (long story short) I cussed this girl out at work (f--- u b----)i never talked to because she got an attitude with me for no reason, and then ignored her. After that she would always try to get closer to me, and stare at me. Why would she react like this? (I was thinking she was trying to get me w/ sexual harrassment so i kept ignoring her, lol).
Secondly, i know this girl i was cool with and wanted it bad, but didn't b/c i knew problems could come out of the situation. I ignored her b/c she kind of disrespected me... well not really.... it's a really long story, just givng the basics. anyways, she used to act all mad b/c i wouldn't talk to her or not respond much to what she was asking. I then felt kinda bad... so i just started being nice (b/c 1 of my homeboys said i should). Then all of a sudden she started flaking (4 days after she showed me videos of her in her bathing suit and booty shaking). 3 days of flaking and i had enough and tried to be real w/ her. i don't care if it's a girl or guy, if u act like u don't want to be bothered w/ me, forget u. I tried to talk to her twice (first time saying if you don't want to talk about it, just say so, she kept acting clueless). Second time i grabbed her by the arm playfully and laughing and she started walking away. i asked her if i was making her uncomfortable and let her go, then she tried to disrespect me on the slide. So i basically told her don't worry about it the next day (let her know on the sly that i knew she was acting flaky), and ignored her since, and now she always seems like she wants to talk and be nice, why if she was so flaky? should i keep ignoring her? Now she keeps asking me questions all of the time, why?
I know it's a long 1st post, but appreciate it in advance on any advice given.
1. (long story short) I cussed this girl out at work (f--- u b----)i never talked to because she got an attitude with me for no reason, and then ignored her. After that she would always try to get closer to me, and stare at me. Why would she react like this? (I was thinking she was trying to get me w/ sexual harrassment so i kept ignoring her, lol).
Secondly, i know this girl i was cool with and wanted it bad, but didn't b/c i knew problems could come out of the situation. I ignored her b/c she kind of disrespected me... well not really.... it's a really long story, just givng the basics. anyways, she used to act all mad b/c i wouldn't talk to her or not respond much to what she was asking. I then felt kinda bad... so i just started being nice (b/c 1 of my homeboys said i should). Then all of a sudden she started flaking (4 days after she showed me videos of her in her bathing suit and booty shaking). 3 days of flaking and i had enough and tried to be real w/ her. i don't care if it's a girl or guy, if u act like u don't want to be bothered w/ me, forget u. I tried to talk to her twice (first time saying if you don't want to talk about it, just say so, she kept acting clueless). Second time i grabbed her by the arm playfully and laughing and she started walking away. i asked her if i was making her uncomfortable and let her go, then she tried to disrespect me on the slide. So i basically told her don't worry about it the next day (let her know on the sly that i knew she was acting flaky), and ignored her since, and now she always seems like she wants to talk and be nice, why if she was so flaky? should i keep ignoring her? Now she keeps asking me questions all of the time, why?
I know it's a long 1st post, but appreciate it in advance on any advice given.