"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Metro3pilot

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Hey Fellas,

Just wondering what you all think .....

these days I seem to be getting text jokes and forwards from a lot of ladies ...

do you consider those as a sign of interest ?

:rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Metro3pilot said:
Hey Fellas,

Just wondering what you all think .....

these days I seem to be getting text jokes and forwards from a lot of ladies ...

do you consider those as a sign of interest ?

:rockon:
No.

Signs of interest include but are not limited to:

1) "There is something about you, I dont know what it is"
2) "Who keeps calling you?"
3) "What are you doing the next 2 weekends?"
4) "Ouch , Im really soar"
 

lookyoung

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No she probably send it to her whole notebook on the phone.

Signs of interest are.
1. She calls you
2. Returns your calls asap
3. Does not flake on you.
4. SHE FUKS YOU WHICH IS THE BIGGEST ONE
 

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Its kind of like a tester. Women are addicted to texting and she's using it to set you up as an outside branch. I can't believe how natural it is for women to branch swing, its almost like its innate for them.

edit: see there is a prime example where I think the MM forum can differentiate from the main forum. We can look at a real life situation, then analyze the theory behind it. Why is she sending these texts? In the process, giving Metro the knowledge to understand WHY in the future.
 

decades

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she wants feedback. the more the better. that keeps here busy texting. it gives her something to do while walking around. notice every three out of five you see are occupied with their phone walking? women feel inadequate unless they are occupied with the phone alone in public.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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