"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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illmatic1005

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im trying to hook up with this girl...
i get all positive signals and everything..she licks her lips, says she wants to hook up, sucks my finger, lets me kino her ass
BUT
everytime i try to hook up with her she never wants to..isolated, in front on ppl, NO WHERE..her friends were even telling her she should hook up with me and she turned red...

Why does she act like she wants to hook up but never does?
Is this playing hard to get or something?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AlexTheGreat

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maybe she's an attention *****? stop giving her attention and see if she comes back to you.
 

Play the Game

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WWAWD If she doesn't get attention?

Would she wh0re herself out to another guy giving her attention or beg you for more attention... TRICKY TRICKY

Aren't most american women w/ the exception of sluts just AW nursing their bruised egos?
I mean common its all about me me me. Make me feel special, cared for, buy me stuff and take care of me! Then i get to have a big wedding where everybody congratulates on what man i was able to bag, and thus reinforces my fragile being.
 

Ace of Flames

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Next time you guys are messing around kinoing and all, suddenly back off and act like you aren't interested.

If she tries to re-initiate it, then she's probably an AW, and you should keep acting disinterested. Maybe she'll cave in if it means you'll give her attention again, know what I mean?

If she doesn't try anything, then it may be more likely that she's shy, or just has low confidence in her sexiness. Maybe she's waiting for the right moment, or she doesn't feel comfortable enough with you. You should make her feel good about herself, and really try to make her comfortable.
 

D!ck Ramsey

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Next time you get these signals, simply say

"Wow, you really like me huh?"

If she blushes then she is just a really shy girl (think female AFC) and you need to take things slowly. You can pretty much forget about a quick lay here. If you are still interested, then hang out with her a bit more and gain her trust.

If she gets defensive or tries to insult you, do not retaliate or lose confidence. Just eye her skeptically and say:

"Deny, deny, deny" with a ****y grin on your face

Then you switch to Serious Mode and drop this:

"You know (chick's name), you only get so many opportunities in life. A shame to let the good ones pass you by"

Then you walk away. She should try to stop you, if she does not then it's time for the Ice Treatment. Like seriously, she does not exist in your world. If you see her with friends, talk to everyone but her. Just keep it at Hi and Bye and avoid eye contact. Treat her like she missed the boat and is going to have to swim a few kilometers if she wants to be down.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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