Wtf?

[chevelle]

The minute i think i have girls figured out, i come across a girl who leaves me scratching my head and saying WTF?

I get the number of an attractive girl, whom i am interested in taking out. I have been very busy, so i never get around to calling her. She texts me, and i finally get around to calling her back. We talk for a while on the phone and she wants to meet me for dinner (this took place tuesday night). Keep in mind, she has been the pursuer.

So, last nite i am at a business dinner and i text her to verify our date. I didn't hear back from her, so i call and leave a message, to verify our plans. I have yet to hear back from her, so i made other plans.

This girl is 27, college educated, and a business professional. I would expect this kind of behavior from a teenage, but a 27 year old--come on.

Has this happened to any of you? I am quite confused how things went from good to bad in a matter of days.

 

[kratosnofear]

This has happened to me a few times. It's so annoying when you could have made other plans, she could have at least called to cancel. There could be a billion reasons for acting like that but the only one that's acceptable is an emergency, anything less then that and she's just not a decent human being. If you still want to bang her I'd up the ****y & funny to almost insulting and be shameless.

 

[DJDamage]

Most women are self serving and self absorbed creatures. Which means she is not deliberately ignoring you but she did forget about you because something else has caught her eye.

She will probably call you back with some excuse B.S when she gets around too.

NEXT!!!

 

[chevelle]

So do i call again in a few days and try again, or do i chalk it up as a loss?

 

[senator]

So do i call again in a few days and try again, or do i chalk it up as a loss?

Well, since you said that she was the pursuer, let her feel the loss by you ultimately rejecting her. Next her. As someone had said, that's just plain old bad behavior. Show her that you're the strong type of man who doesn't tolerate BS.

Maybe you can do her a favor in a roundabout way, by letting her learn from her experience with you.

 

[vitor]

She has your number, but she doesnt respect you. If you do decide to see her again, tell her she can come over and have a drink of hang out. That way if she shows great, but if not you didnt drive somewhere, go somewhere, its your way or the highway. I never miss a date unless I dont care about that person or respect them. I met a stunning 10, with the hugest fake tits in the world. Got her number, we made plans, i sat at the restaurant for 30 mins, then I finshed my drink and left. She calls me 2 days later apoligizes ask me out for drinks. We go have fun, but I was just kinda at a loss for her standing me up and never called her again. She choose to date someone else, hang out with a friend, or do something which wasnt respectful to me.

 

[Phyzzle]

Dude, I'll tell you WTF is up.

You are a goddam retard. That's what's up

This attractive chick invited you to her place for dinner (and desert), and you just flaked.

So, last nite i am at a business dinner and i text her to verify our date. I didn't hear back from her, so i call and leave a message, to verify our plans. I have yet to hear back from her, so i made other plans.

You already HAD a plans, remember? Dinner? Her house? Why do you need it verified, signed, sealed, finalized, and notarized by text and email? You already agreed on it. Just SHOW UP!

 

[chevelle]

^^^^^^

can you read? Obviously not! I called friday night (yesterday), so i could get directions and pick her up to go out to dinner the next evening (today). I don't even know this chick, so i have no obligation to her. All i know is, she called me first and asked me if i wanted to have dinner--which i said "yes."

She called me on tuesday, we chatted for a while and i told her i would call her later on in the week to get directions and such to her house. I followed through and got flaked on.

Don't you find irony in a girl asking me out and then when I call her back to get directions and such to her house, she flakes? It is apparent that i did nothing wrong. Sorry i have a life outside of hanging on the phone 24-7 talking to females.

IN the future i will finalize the plans and get directions to a girls house right away. She was calling me sexy and all that on the phone, so i let my guard and figured i was in.