"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wtf?

pua1989

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so i was macking on this girl, and to my knowledge it seemed like she aws feeling me, check out this text convo (one of many):

me: "what i dont get a happy birthday?"
her: "oh its your birthday?? happy birthday!"
me: "i cant believe you didnt know that..."
her: "im sorry"
me: "you are going to have to make it up to me..."
her: "ok, tell me how i am going to make it up to you"
me: "i can think of a few things"
her: "i can also think of a few things"
me: "like what girl?"
her: "like....you know"
me: "like that **** behind closed doors?"
her: "yeah sure"
me: "sounds dandy"
her: "when do you plan to have me make it up to you?"
....

i told a friend of mine i was hitting on her and then two days later he goes out, and the night we were supposed to hang out she flooks me and hangs out with him (out of nowhere) and he ends up hooking up with her.. i havent talked to her since saturday night

any ideas? so far im just inclined to drop it, but if my friend is trying to mack id like to continue if you guys think itd be a good idea so i can steal her back

input?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Shocker

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Come on dude, this is a run of the mill high school slut. Does it really matter if your friend banged her? She's not going to be weird around you because she's seen your buddy's penis. Let her see yours.

Don't let it develop into anything beyond that. And wrap it up.
 

pua1989

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hahahhaa fo sho dude, but shes a virgin and all they did was make out. i am just baffled by how fast it 360'ed on me... thanks for the heads up
 
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