"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wtf?

pua1989

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so i was macking on this girl, and to my knowledge it seemed like she aws feeling me, check out this text convo (one of many):

me: "what i dont get a happy birthday?"
her: "oh its your birthday?? happy birthday!"
me: "i cant believe you didnt know that..."
her: "im sorry"
me: "you are going to have to make it up to me..."
her: "ok, tell me how i am going to make it up to you"
me: "i can think of a few things"
her: "i can also think of a few things"
me: "like what girl?"
her: "like....you know"
me: "like that **** behind closed doors?"
her: "yeah sure"
me: "sounds dandy"
her: "when do you plan to have me make it up to you?"
....

i told a friend of mine i was hitting on her and then two days later he goes out, and the night we were supposed to hang out she flooks me and hangs out with him (out of nowhere) and he ends up hooking up with her.. i havent talked to her since saturday night

any ideas? so far im just inclined to drop it, but if my friend is trying to mack id like to continue if you guys think itd be a good idea so i can steal her back

input?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Shocker

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Come on dude, this is a run of the mill high school slut. Does it really matter if your friend banged her? She's not going to be weird around you because she's seen your buddy's penis. Let her see yours.

Don't let it develop into anything beyond that. And wrap it up.
 

pua1989

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hahahhaa fo sho dude, but shes a virgin and all they did was make out. i am just baffled by how fast it 360'ed on me... thanks for the heads up
 
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