"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ Axton

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I'm gonna jump right into this.

I'm only 15, and yet I'm more of a DJ than pretty much everyone i know. But recently I met this girl who wasn't like other girls. I found myself falling in love with her, but she was totally resistant to my charms. Then I found out why.

She kinda had a boyfriend. Like one of the nicest guys on earth. So yer, I moved on. But I had trouble getting over her. That was until I found out that she smoked. Heavily. There is practically nothing i hate mor than smoking. And yet there is more.

There is nothing her boyfriend hates more than smoking either. But it turns out she's been keeping this from him the whole 10 months odd they've been going out. If he found out he would probably dump her. That's where my dilema begins.

I could:

a) Tell the boyfriend. He's like my best friend too and I dont wanna see him get hurt (which is why I tried to get over her so urgently). But if he dumps her, then I would have a shot, and I could try and help her quit so I can get in there myself. Not really my style but hey, it could work.

b) Just totally forget about her and leave the boyfriend to clean up the mess.

Need a solution n any help would be much appreciated.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Outkast

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So let's see:

1 - She has a boyfriend

2 - She is resistant to your charms

3 - She smokes and you really hate that

4 - The boyfriend is like your best friend too


I think that is just a lot of trouble and not really worth it.
I'd take B.
 
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oakraiderz2

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Wait...so her boyfriend is your best friend? Yet you didnt know and you want to get with her? Youre also willing to tell him she smokes so you can get with her? You kinda seem like a snake. Stop being such a vag just because shes taken. Theres 54093493048 other girls in the world. Help her quit huh? Thats like trying to turn a ho into a housewife.
 
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ryannath

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I agree with oakraiderz2, I'd bet you money she doesn't even wanna quit smoking so it's pretty pointless to try to get her to stop. Kinda like trying to get a ho to stop being a ho. It's nearly impossible.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PleasureKing

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woah, your only 15. you cant handle all that. take choice B. besides, he will eventually find out sooner or later.
 
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Zerotwoonenine

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well i think that if u tell him then take a shot yourself, you will end up losing her, him and your rep. Leave it to him
 
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