"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ Axton

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I'm gonna jump right into this.

I'm only 15, and yet I'm more of a DJ than pretty much everyone i know. But recently I met this girl who wasn't like other girls. I found myself falling in love with her, but she was totally resistant to my charms. Then I found out why.

She kinda had a boyfriend. Like one of the nicest guys on earth. So yer, I moved on. But I had trouble getting over her. That was until I found out that she smoked. Heavily. There is practically nothing i hate mor than smoking. And yet there is more.

There is nothing her boyfriend hates more than smoking either. But it turns out she's been keeping this from him the whole 10 months odd they've been going out. If he found out he would probably dump her. That's where my dilema begins.

I could:

a) Tell the boyfriend. He's like my best friend too and I dont wanna see him get hurt (which is why I tried to get over her so urgently). But if he dumps her, then I would have a shot, and I could try and help her quit so I can get in there myself. Not really my style but hey, it could work.

b) Just totally forget about her and leave the boyfriend to clean up the mess.

Need a solution n any help would be much appreciated.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Outkast

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So let's see:

1 - She has a boyfriend

2 - She is resistant to your charms

3 - She smokes and you really hate that

4 - The boyfriend is like your best friend too


I think that is just a lot of trouble and not really worth it.
I'd take B.
 
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oakraiderz2

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Wait...so her boyfriend is your best friend? Yet you didnt know and you want to get with her? Youre also willing to tell him she smokes so you can get with her? You kinda seem like a snake. Stop being such a vag just because shes taken. Theres 54093493048 other girls in the world. Help her quit huh? Thats like trying to turn a ho into a housewife.
 
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ryannath

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I agree with oakraiderz2, I'd bet you money she doesn't even wanna quit smoking so it's pretty pointless to try to get her to stop. Kinda like trying to get a ho to stop being a ho. It's nearly impossible.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PleasureKing

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woah, your only 15. you cant handle all that. take choice B. besides, he will eventually find out sooner or later.
 
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Zerotwoonenine

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well i think that if u tell him then take a shot yourself, you will end up losing her, him and your rep. Leave it to him
 
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