Anyone that has been on a few dates encounters this phenomenon. A woman shows a lot of interest in you, but she suddenly backs off. What the heck happened?
Examples:
* You call her and leave a message, but she dosen’t call back
* She resists a kiss attempt
* You ask for a date but she gives you a half-ass answer
It dosen’t make sense; she’s obviously showing some signs of interest or else you wouldn’t make the moves. Why then is she playing hard to get? I thought about it and here are some possible reasons.
Doesn’t Want to Look Easy
The thing that women fear the most is being labeled a *****. She could feel like things are moving too fast and dosen’t want you to get the impression that she’s “easy.” By playing a little hard to get she’s saying “Hey I like you and all, but I want you to know I’m a classy girl.” Time to lower the womanizing skills just a little and let her catch up.
Wants to Increase Her Value By Being a Challenge
Everyone knows we value the things that we worked harder to get. Perhaps she’s had some bad experiences in the past with guys leaving her too fast. This could be her way of trying to increase your interest, this is especially true if you give off the womanizer vibe.
Testing Your Interest
Beautiful women get approached and asked for their numbers everyday. The problem for them is deciding what the guy’s interests are. There are some guys that just want to hook up only for sex and that may not be what she wants. By playing a little hard to get, the guys that really want her will be the ones willing to go the extra mile.
A lot of guys give up too fast and too early when they see resistance from a woman. Often times this is just her way of dating and doesn’t necessarily reflect on anything you did. Remember the motto:
“If She’s Resistant, then be Persistent”
Examples:
* You call her and leave a message, but she dosen’t call back
* She resists a kiss attempt
* You ask for a date but she gives you a half-ass answer
It dosen’t make sense; she’s obviously showing some signs of interest or else you wouldn’t make the moves. Why then is she playing hard to get? I thought about it and here are some possible reasons.
Doesn’t Want to Look Easy
The thing that women fear the most is being labeled a *****. She could feel like things are moving too fast and dosen’t want you to get the impression that she’s “easy.” By playing a little hard to get she’s saying “Hey I like you and all, but I want you to know I’m a classy girl.” Time to lower the womanizing skills just a little and let her catch up.
Wants to Increase Her Value By Being a Challenge
Everyone knows we value the things that we worked harder to get. Perhaps she’s had some bad experiences in the past with guys leaving her too fast. This could be her way of trying to increase your interest, this is especially true if you give off the womanizer vibe.
Testing Your Interest
Beautiful women get approached and asked for their numbers everyday. The problem for them is deciding what the guy’s interests are. There are some guys that just want to hook up only for sex and that may not be what she wants. By playing a little hard to get, the guys that really want her will be the ones willing to go the extra mile.
A lot of guys give up too fast and too early when they see resistance from a woman. Often times this is just her way of dating and doesn’t necessarily reflect on anything you did. Remember the motto:
“If She’s Resistant, then be Persistent”
That about sums it up