WTF! Why do they keep hanging around???

[cumfiesta]

I dumped my x, 2 months ago. I caught her with another guy, who was driving her car with her in the passenger side. I called her cell, and left a message knowing she wasnt going to answer nor return my call as a sign of guilt and embarassment. She never called back, but she's hanging around

I met her at the gym, that we both go together. I started off as her trainer then it sprouted. While we were together, she joined 24hr fitness right across where she lives, which is 15 miles away from the gym i met her at. I still go to this gym, and so does she?
Why in the hell would she come to my gym rather than the one she joined? Why travel 15 miles away to workout, when you got a gym right across the street?

We have got into 4 fights before, and she would try and re-establish contact with me, which she did. I would totally ignore her in the gym, and then it drove her crazy, so she would approach me.

I havent seen her in my gym for 2 months till this saturday, and she was in some aerobic class. ( i was on vacation in hawaii) She left when it was done. I seen her out the corner of my eye. I caught her glance, but she ended up leaving. My friends told me, that she's always in here

Im not going to join another gym, since i work ft at this one. Im not gonna leave cuz of her slutty azz.

If your over someone, you should cutt off all ties. Apparently she's not, if she continues to show up. She should be embarassed for getting caught dont you think?She's done this before crap before.

Input

 

[Oxide]

here is something you probably never thought about ....: MAY BE SHE LIKES THAT GYM. and is over you, having wild sex with another guy, while loving workouts at this gym....

damn, motu was right.

 

[cumfiesta]

bump

Your only 19. Not gonna take some advice from some teen who has 1678 post. Your point is moot! Your not even old enuff to drink and go to a real club

 

[Knicknack]

if you are going to post on this forum you better be ready to except advice from ALL members, regarless of age. Oxide has quality advice and i agree with him on your current situation.

 

[Trance]

She is going nice with the new guy, but she's still curious about what are you doing now after her, why you nexted her, or maybe even prove herself to you to show you were the loser in the game.

 

[diablo]

Knick, just ignore him and let this thread die the natural death it deserves. The guy apparently has nothing better to do than whine about things that are over and done.

If he had really moved on with his life, such as he claims, it wouldn't matter if his ex decided to go to the same gym as him. In fact, even if she moved in the apartment next to his, he shouldn't care. I agree with Oxide - and yes, MoTU was right. Perhaps "cumfiesta" (with that name, I'm guessing that you are younger than Oxide) should look over MoTU's latest thread before whining about how his ex-g/f works out in the same gym as him and ignores him. As for her "being embarassed that she's caught", this is ridiculous. Your own friends have told you that she's in there all the time. Sounds to me like she's working on getting a better body so she can attract a better man.

 

[cumfiesta]

hey beetchup
i bet with 250 post from yourself since you have nothing better to do, assuming you have cried in previous post. It probably has to do something with your age

 

[cumfiesta]

quailty advice from a 19yr old?? Gotta be kidding me!

He probably just does a search on here and browses through post picking up crap, and reintroducing it to others. Anybody can do that. But to one with more than 1000 post needs to seriously get a life.

 

[-k2]

he averages 4ish posts a day, and you just posted 4 times today in this thread.

If your gonna tell people to get a life, lets try to sound like less of a moron.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by cumfiesta
quailty advice from a 19yr old?? Gotta be kidding me!

He probably just does a search on here and browses through post picking up crap, and reintroducing it to others. Anybody can do that. But to one with more than 1000 post needs to seriously get a life.

What exactly do you want from this post?

You didn't even ASK for advice, the only question you asked is, "Do you think she should be embarassed for being caught cheating?" Yes she should, but she's going to do what she wants to do.

Now if you want advice above and beyond that on what you should do next or how to interpret the situation, then stop cussing out everyone who tries.

What exactly do you want someone to say that hasn't been said before? You're lucky people actually take TIME out of their lives to DO the search for you, since you can't seem to do it yourself, and re-present the information to you. Your situation isn't unique or special...girls have been doing this kind of crazy sh*t since girls existed.

 

[WaterTiger]

Maybe....she pre-paid her gym membership and can't transfer it to another location?

Just because she's a skanky, evil, cheating wh0re doesn't mean she has alot of money.

 

[backbreaker]

dude, it really isn't THAT serious. Maybe she does like the gym.

the bottom line is WHO CARES!!!

You don't have to not see her, or be a jerk around her. Do you know how childish that is? "(pouting) I am mad at you, don't come around here!".

Smile at her, be friendly when she talks to her, not because you want to show her that you are over her, but because you ARE FRIENDLY and there is no reason to treat her differently than anyone else.

There was one girl I dated for around 2 months, we not only worked toegher, we worked pretty much in the same department. When we broke up (she cheated on me) she would come to work and talk as loud as possible about the guys she just fvcked so I could hear her. At first, even though I didn't care about her all that much, it got to me. But I decided not to let it show. Whenever she would need me to do something or see me, I always smiled, was polite and even joked around with her. BOY OH BOY DID THIS PISS HER OFF. So much so that I am friends with her best friend (even though she doesn't know) and she would lie telling her Best friend that I still call her and I asked her out (dont' even know what she looks like any longer).

 

[Alen-Delon]

deep down you still got something for her if you wouldnt then it woudlnt bother you if she lives in that Gym and sleeps.... so obivously you have lil something for that gurl....
your missing out homei theres so many hot azz hoez that come in to gyms shiii.... go hola and stop wastin your time