DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
Question:
I'm trying to figure out if I goofed with this chick I met off of Match.
Yesterday we set up this meet & greet at a Starbucks in downtown DC. This happens all in two days of the communication. She knows what I look like and read my profile.
I get there. GooD GAWD! Her Azz was so big and phat. Miami shorty. Damn. We began walking and talking. We get to a spot sit down. And she begins to ask me questions about my match experiences. DAMN. I think this is where I F'd up. I let it flow. I mean she was askin and I was being "candid".
I ask her the type of guy she's interested in. She says she's not attracted to guys with dredds. But loves bald heads. Me havin the ceasar low cut. I say, "So I guess that takes me out of contection." She calmly says, "I'm sorry I'm not attracted to you."
WHOA. I chilled and threw on the poker face and didn't blink. Looked her dead in the eye and said, "Man that's cool." That's what we are out here to do. Find our likes and dislikes." I SMILED. She smiled and said after some silence and me showing her I wasn't trippin. Here is the rub, she then ask "Has any woman told you that before." I lie and say, "Uh..No.", while looking like I was trying recollect if had ever happened. She says, " Didn't you say that no one can out charm Chemistry in your profile?" I did say that. And it is true. Well, for authenticity YES because I wrote it. If I had said anything otherwise I'd have been looking worse that her calling my bluff it seem. Or is she being for real. A few minutes later she says , "This is so awkward. I just thought I let you know what the deal was." I once again play my position and say,"Hey that's cool. Frontin goes against what I stand for. I'd rather hear the truth than a front anyday."
She then changes the subject and shows me the top she bought from some store. She wants to bounce. We walking back to the meeting point and she says, "I'm still a Match virgin (yeh BS). I think I want to just meet new friends for now." Me: "That's cool. I understand." Because it was I went out on a date and it didn't work out but I didn't drop and paper on her.
But this is where she confusses me. We come to the corner and she says "we'll talk later." I was like..WTF?? She hands me her hand in a position for me to kiss. I simply shake it. We go our seperate ways. I hit the ride, pop in Sean Price. I was out headed back to VA. I'm kind of mad I took a "L" (loss) in an hour and fifteen. Hell I even touched her arm while we walked.
Nevertheless, I think I know where I went wrong. I shoudln't have been soo friendly from the jump. I was too diplomatic. plus i ran my mouth too much. She said it was something I said that turned her off. Anybody out here find something I shouldn't have done??
I'm trying to figure out if I goofed with this chick I met off of Match.
Yesterday we set up this meet & greet at a Starbucks in downtown DC. This happens all in two days of the communication. She knows what I look like and read my profile.
I get there. GooD GAWD! Her Azz was so big and phat. Miami shorty. Damn. We began walking and talking. We get to a spot sit down. And she begins to ask me questions about my match experiences. DAMN. I think this is where I F'd up. I let it flow. I mean she was askin and I was being "candid".
I ask her the type of guy she's interested in. She says she's not attracted to guys with dredds. But loves bald heads. Me havin the ceasar low cut. I say, "So I guess that takes me out of contection." She calmly says, "I'm sorry I'm not attracted to you."
WHOA. I chilled and threw on the poker face and didn't blink. Looked her dead in the eye and said, "Man that's cool." That's what we are out here to do. Find our likes and dislikes." I SMILED. She smiled and said after some silence and me showing her I wasn't trippin. Here is the rub, she then ask "Has any woman told you that before." I lie and say, "Uh..No.", while looking like I was trying recollect if had ever happened. She says, " Didn't you say that no one can out charm Chemistry in your profile?" I did say that. And it is true. Well, for authenticity YES because I wrote it. If I had said anything otherwise I'd have been looking worse that her calling my bluff it seem. Or is she being for real. A few minutes later she says , "This is so awkward. I just thought I let you know what the deal was." I once again play my position and say,"Hey that's cool. Frontin goes against what I stand for. I'd rather hear the truth than a front anyday."
She then changes the subject and shows me the top she bought from some store. She wants to bounce. We walking back to the meeting point and she says, "I'm still a Match virgin (yeh BS). I think I want to just meet new friends for now." Me: "That's cool. I understand." Because it was I went out on a date and it didn't work out but I didn't drop and paper on her.
But this is where she confusses me. We come to the corner and she says "we'll talk later." I was like..WTF?? She hands me her hand in a position for me to kiss. I simply shake it. We go our seperate ways. I hit the ride, pop in Sean Price. I was out headed back to VA. I'm kind of mad I took a "L" (loss) in an hour and fifteen. Hell I even touched her arm while we walked.
Nevertheless, I think I know where I went wrong. I shoudln't have been soo friendly from the jump. I was too diplomatic. plus i ran my mouth too much. She said it was something I said that turned her off. Anybody out here find something I shouldn't have done??
