So I started talking to this girl on myspace, shes cute and I just found out she lived pretty close by. The only problem is, while her profile said she was 18 and she appeared to be 18, shes actually just shy of 16. I'm 18. Is a senior dating a sophomore strange? We haven't met or anything yet, but I was supposed to today.
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Wtf?! Weak!
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Plec07
Senior Don Juan
I wouldn't say 16-18 is that big a gap as 2 years at that age isn't much. Plus she's legal. Go for it if you want dude.
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Master Don Juan
I don't think theres a problem with the age difference. But, you said your 18 and she's just shy of 16? Than, she is not legal; so becareful with what you do.