"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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WTF? put on email lists by girls who reject you.

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wow, I had exactly this happen the other day. This girl basically broke things off with me, but then sent me and one other guy a random email saying "hey sorry I missed your calls. I'll contact you guys soon." I know full-well this was no mistake. but what i figure is if she is going through such lengths to re-establish contact, and make me jealous by including the other guy, why not give it another shot? as a high-value man, it can't hurt to have multiple contacts and things going for the future. she responded immediately and talks are back on :).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJNiceGuy said:
wow, I had exactly this happen the other day. This girl basically broke things off with me, but then sent me and one other guy a random email saying "hey sorry I missed your calls. I'll contact you guys soon." I know full-well this was no mistake. but what i figure is if she is going through such lengths to re-establish contact, and make me jealous by including the other guy, why not give it another shot? as a high-value man, it can't hurt to have multiple contacts and things going for the future. she responded immediately and talks are back on :).
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And she got exactly what she wanted. Such lengths? She wrote an email that took all of 30 seconds. That's how much effort she went to. She threw a little bit of meat out there and you responded like a little puppy dog. Now, since "talks are back on" it's likely that she is going to be able to USE you as an orbiter and as a point on one of her triangles, which is the only thing she wanted out of you in the first place. See they know in seconds whether or not they "want" you. But flat out "hard" rejecting you would mean she can't use you again when she needs you. So what they do is soft reject you, then re-frame and turn you into a friend who they can use. I have two words to say to her. Mission Accomplished!
 
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I seriously doubt this was an accident. I never received a mass email for a long time, then suddenly I do? I doubt these mass emails only happen once every 4 months.

Like the other guy said, who CC's their entire address book? That's nuts. No, this was deliberate. I looked at the list of recipients, it consists about about 20 or so names, and most are guys judging from the names of the email address (like blond_surfer_guy28@yahoo or whatever)

No, this was total AW crap, not an accident.
 
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