"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WTF? put on email lists by girls who reject you.

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wow, I had exactly this happen the other day. This girl basically broke things off with me, but then sent me and one other guy a random email saying "hey sorry I missed your calls. I'll contact you guys soon." I know full-well this was no mistake. but what i figure is if she is going through such lengths to re-establish contact, and make me jealous by including the other guy, why not give it another shot? as a high-value man, it can't hurt to have multiple contacts and things going for the future. she responded immediately and talks are back on :).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJNiceGuy said:
wow, I had exactly this happen the other day. This girl basically broke things off with me, but then sent me and one other guy a random email saying "hey sorry I missed your calls. I'll contact you guys soon." I know full-well this was no mistake. but what i figure is if she is going through such lengths to re-establish contact, and make me jealous by including the other guy, why not give it another shot? as a high-value man, it can't hurt to have multiple contacts and things going for the future. she responded immediately and talks are back on :).
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And she got exactly what she wanted. Such lengths? She wrote an email that took all of 30 seconds. That's how much effort she went to. She threw a little bit of meat out there and you responded like a little puppy dog. Now, since "talks are back on" it's likely that she is going to be able to USE you as an orbiter and as a point on one of her triangles, which is the only thing she wanted out of you in the first place. See they know in seconds whether or not they "want" you. But flat out "hard" rejecting you would mean she can't use you again when she needs you. So what they do is soft reject you, then re-frame and turn you into a friend who they can use. I have two words to say to her. Mission Accomplished!
 
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I seriously doubt this was an accident. I never received a mass email for a long time, then suddenly I do? I doubt these mass emails only happen once every 4 months.

Like the other guy said, who CC's their entire address book? That's nuts. No, this was deliberate. I looked at the list of recipients, it consists about about 20 or so names, and most are guys judging from the names of the email address (like blond_surfer_guy28@yahoo or whatever)

No, this was total AW crap, not an accident.
 
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