"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wtf just happened? wow.....

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Taistelukalkkuna said:
My advice is to buy her huge bouquet of roses, box of chocolate, and cheesy card.:D Then at the prime time, give it to her and confess your undying love for her.:D
LMAO :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SharinganUser said:
File a complaint with her boss. She shouldn't be rewarded for being a *****.
Agreed. I'd talk to management and let them know she needs an attitude adjustment.
 

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Her job isn't to say bye. It's to make the customer feel welcome and want to return, which she obviously failed to do.

But did you ever have someone insult you but you didn't pick up on it at the time? You didn't react at all, and later realize that being defensive wouldn't have improved the situation. Often, no reaction is the better reaction.
 

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This thread is retarded, some girl at the front counter said hi to you, you didn't say hi back, so she got mad cause you were being rude.

It is in fact her job to meet & greet, as well as say goodbye to everybody walking in and out of the gym. So when she says those things, most people expect others to have the common courtesy to return the hello or goodbye, regardless of how ingenuine it may be. You did not display that courtesy so she called you out on it.

You're overreacting, I doubt she's interested in you. She's looked at you while you were working out because there is nothing to do in the gym. You're there alone most of the time by yourself listening to music, there isn't really much to do besides look at other people to see what workouts they're doing, what techniques they use, etc. For the people that work there it must be even more boring cause they're not even exercising, they just stand around and do nothing.

Move on and get over it. It's not going to be "awkward" when the lady at the front desk says hello and goodbye to you like she does to every single other person who walks in and out of the gym.

What are you in high school?
 

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bigneil said:
Her job isn't to say bye. It's to make the customer feel welcome and want to return, which she obviously failed to do.

But did you ever have someone insult you but you didn't pick up on it at the time? You didn't react at all, and later realize that being defensive wouldn't have improved the situation. Often, no reaction is the better reaction.
This may be true but most places, the men or women at the front counter are in fact REQUIRED to say hello and goodbye to the people. It may not be her job, but they are specifically instructed to do these things.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
This thread is retarded, some girl at the front counter said hi to you, you didn't say hi back, so she got mad cause you were being rude.

It is in fact her job to meet & greet, as well as say goodbye to everybody walking in and out of the gym. So when she says those things, most people expect others to have the common courtesy to return the hello or goodbye, regardless of how ingenuine it may be. You did not display that courtesy so she called you out on it.

You're overreacting, I doubt she's interested in you. She's looked at you while you were working out because there is nothing to do in the gym. You're there alone most of the time by yourself listening to music, there isn't really much to do besides look at other people to see what workouts they're doing, what techniques they use, etc. For the people that work there it must be even more boring cause they're not even exercising, they just stand around and do nothing.

Move on and get over it. It's not going to be "awkward" when the lady at the front desk says hello and goodbye to you like she does to every single other person who walks in and out of the gym.

What are you in high school?
Wtf? I did say good bye I never said i didn't or never failed to say hi back .. didn't u read the thread?
 

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Jair213 said:
Wtf? I did say good bye I never said i didn't or never failed to say hi back .. didn't u read the thread?
Didn't you say she didn't hear you?
 

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
Didn't you say she didn't hear you?
I said that she probably didn't hear me but I doubt it because I said it loud enough whatever though lol
 
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