"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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wtf is wrong with women online?

bigblock7

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Ok this is like my 2-3 time trying online dating...Yes my social circle is quite sh1ty at the moment. Anyway i'm half decent looking with an alright build and fairly confident with women. I just spent last 2 years on and off dating sites , trying every trick in the book but I can't seem to find a good looking girl DTF/relationship who isn't batsh1t crazy. All these fvckin dating sites seem like ego-inflating playgrounds for women who love the copious amounts of pedestal-like worship from men. These womens expectations are increased like ten-fold when infront of the screen. I mean iv had better success trollin nightclubs literally just pulling my phone out telling girls to put there number in.

Do you recon that deleting my online profiles was a good move? Iv been getting no where...so I'd thought I'd move on putting more effort into clubs/bars , uni , friends of friends..etc.

sorry for the rant...pissed off ATM lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Most of them are totally nutjobs. Pump and dump only. With online you have to portray I don't give a fvck attitude. Chicks respond to the most retarded stuff, most of the time. Search for "naughtyninja pof". Lots of good material there to get you started.
 

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All these fvckin dating sites seem like ego-inflating playgrounds for women who love the copious amounts of pedestal-like worship from men.

Yes. Too much attention from beta guys and hence the ego boost. Its just like facebook. Your only 23...i would not do online dating and instead focus on real life interactions. Online dating will be a benefit down the road when older, but being college age....social circle game + going to bars(alcohol) = win.
 

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This is my issue with online dating, I tried it for two weeks and just found it highly frustrating. The girls on there arent that attractive and the ones that are a probably swamped with guys telling them how hot they are. Which is why instead of online dating, I just do street game, you get hotter girls, better interactions and its more fun. A girl values a guy approaching her(well) 50 times more than a guy doing it online.
 

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bigblock7 said:
Ok this is like my 2-3 time trying online dating...Yes my social circle is quite sh1ty at the moment. Anyway i'm half decent looking with an alright build and fairly confident with women. I just spent last 2 years on and off dating sites , trying every trick in the book but I can't seem to find a good looking girl DTF/relationship who isn't batsh1t crazy. All these fvckin dating sites seem like ego-inflating playgrounds for women who love the copious amounts of pedestal-like worship from men. These womens expectations are increased like ten-fold when infront of the screen. I mean iv had better success trollin nightclubs literally just pulling my phone out telling girls to put there number in.

Do you recon that deleting my online profiles was a good move? Iv been getting no where...so I'd thought I'd move on putting more effort into clubs/bars , uni , friends of friends..etc.

sorry for the rant...pissed off ATM lol

A classic line about online dating is from Nismo on here: "A man's online dating profile is ONLY as strong as his worst picture."

If one picture looks sh1ttier than the rest. That's what you "really" look like to them. Why? Because these same chicks are PRO's at faking the funk in pictures with looks, angles etc.

Think of it from even a complete worthless, drama filled life cvm dumpsters prospective. If you were that same type as a dude. Banged many, many chicks, were a complete loser yet had tons of chicks online sending you messages..The ONLY way you'd sort through them is based on the best looking chicks in the pictures. And if you knew the picture tricks as you were doing them yourself on God knows how many sites: Facebook, MySpace (when it was hot) other dating sites...You'd be able to tell who isn't as hot as they seemed by looking for signs or their worst picture.

chicks are always looking for "liars" about age etc. Because THEY are lying like mofos on there. Age, pic look, weight, hiding issues, you name it. So they expect every dude to be lying. They look for the hottest looking they can land at the time. Nothing more. The better you look to them. The more you can get away with: Nudes, dirty talk, phone numbers, meets etc.

You cannot EVER take anyone or anything at ALL no matter how good looking or promising it seems in online dating as serious. You play the "I believe you." game. Take everything and anything with a grain of salt. Go for numbers ASAP. Don't d1ck around. Unless you only like getting replies and have no plans to meet them in the end if you did start getting a lot of replies. I wouldn't waste my time with any of those chicks. I simply trolled those sites for fun. But if you want to treat it like posting on here...You BS with others and could care less when you log off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bigblock7

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Thanks for the replies guys.. Will probably NOT return to online dating for a while. There just seems like toooo much effort for so little return. Most likely will just stick to clubs/bars , social circle ...etc. Might I also add these women on some of these websites( especially pof,oasis active) are pretty much bottom of the barrel.

Meh not really missing out on much...what gets me though is that I don't know how these women can afford to be so picky when in fact every girl i'v been close with in REAL LIFE was so much better then any girl iv come across online(who's rejected my requests)

Hmmm 6/10's thinking there 10/10's syndrome lol
 
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