"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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eastside562

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We barely started talking and she acts realky wierd. Wants to text 4-7 and when i dont reply she goes emo. Like she wrote " I think I better stop this crazy thing before I totally fall" than she writes me a long reason of we should stop talking becuase she feels like she bothers me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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narcissist

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Dude. Stop making threads about this girl.

You like her? then chill and stop making threads.

You dont? then drop her.

Simple. as. that.

You dont have to make a thread for every damn text and action this girl does.


You really need to read the DJ bible. You're kinda an afc.

Don't worry we've all be there. But I'm not afraid to say it. You need some harsh truth.


You really need to work on yourself and inner game. Start a journal. and drop this weird bish.


Reason why you havent dropped her. SHES ALL YOU GOT.

Go out and spin plates. then you wont give a damn about this weird ass woman and all her red flags.
 

eastside562

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This is about a different girl, i havent even went out with her yet. I just kill time by texting her. I end up telling her im going to bed if you wanna talk tommarow cool if not than its cool too.
 

RagingBalls

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Man, i can't believe you still want to talk to this girl when she's giving weird dramas to you. It's not worth it. You can find ones who has no issues like that.
 

MOTU

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Reminds me of this POF chick I was chatting up a bit, she was pretty hot and I wanted to fvck her. So one day she txts me "how was your day?" And I replied (after an appropriate pause) "productive, you?". Well the you? was a big mistake because I got four screens of car trouble drama, ex *****ing and ex-in law rescue.

I thought holy sh!t, I haven't even me this b!tch let alone fvcked her and I get the emotional vomit? NEXT!!!

OP, run from this kind of drama. It's a sure sign she is batsh!t crazy and it will only get worse. B!tches like that live in a perpetual soap opera and if there isn't drama, they'll create it - at your expense, if need be. RUN
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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