"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wtf is wrong with this girl

eastside562

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We barely started talking and she acts realky wierd. Wants to text 4-7 and when i dont reply she goes emo. Like she wrote " I think I better stop this crazy thing before I totally fall" than she writes me a long reason of we should stop talking becuase she feels like she bothers me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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narcissist

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Dude. Stop making threads about this girl.

You like her? then chill and stop making threads.

You dont? then drop her.

Simple. as. that.

You dont have to make a thread for every damn text and action this girl does.


You really need to read the DJ bible. You're kinda an afc.

Don't worry we've all be there. But I'm not afraid to say it. You need some harsh truth.


You really need to work on yourself and inner game. Start a journal. and drop this weird bish.


Reason why you havent dropped her. SHES ALL YOU GOT.

Go out and spin plates. then you wont give a damn about this weird ass woman and all her red flags.
 

eastside562

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This is about a different girl, i havent even went out with her yet. I just kill time by texting her. I end up telling her im going to bed if you wanna talk tommarow cool if not than its cool too.
 

RagingBalls

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Man, i can't believe you still want to talk to this girl when she's giving weird dramas to you. It's not worth it. You can find ones who has no issues like that.
 

MOTU

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Reminds me of this POF chick I was chatting up a bit, she was pretty hot and I wanted to fvck her. So one day she txts me "how was your day?" And I replied (after an appropriate pause) "productive, you?". Well the you? was a big mistake because I got four screens of car trouble drama, ex *****ing and ex-in law rescue.

I thought holy sh!t, I haven't even me this b!tch let alone fvcked her and I get the emotional vomit? NEXT!!!

OP, run from this kind of drama. It's a sure sign she is batsh!t crazy and it will only get worse. B!tches like that live in a perpetual soap opera and if there isn't drama, they'll create it - at your expense, if need be. RUN
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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