"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WTF is wrong with me?!

backseatjuan

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I don't want to do anything. I wake up in the morning, 6 o'clock, go to work, sit there until 6 evening, all I'm interested is making money, and not spending it. Then I come home and I don't want to do anything. Find a girl, no thanks. Go to beach, no thanks. No motivation for anything at all. I used to do my website, now I'm not even doing that. This happened after my girlfriend left me. Then that same week I find out I'm adopted. Almost a month like this. I have no interest in women, I find all women garbage, not worth my time. All I want is to make money on people. I think I have low sex drive.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Krueg

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Nothing is wrong with you. We all go though different hardships in life. Unfortunately you got hit with a couple of blows in a short period of time. Obviously alot of sh!t is probably running around in your head and possibly emotions. You just gotta stay positive, time always heals your wounds. As for your girlfriend leaving you, just think of it this way. You dodged a Bullet! Plenty of women out there and when your ready; I will Guarantee you the next girl will be all over you. For the mean time, just focus on yourself, hobbies, passions and making money. Keep improving yourself, remember you are the PRIZE!!
 

FinallyFree

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Jesus it sounds like you're living the dream. I wish all i could think about is making money. All i can think about is my ****ty liar ex so my career is on hiatus.
 

The_flying_dutchman

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Well look on the bright side, at least all the skeletons in your closet are coming out now so you won't have to deal with it ever again.... I'd say the worst is over for a long time...
 
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