"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wtf Is Wrong With Me

DA KID

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Alright so pretty much I have this girl I've been talking to trying to get to know better. I find out that she really likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship because of past relationships and she wants to take things slow. We went on a few dates here and their. I feel like I'm going lose my chance cause it's kind of akward since we both like each other but we havent done anything. I feel that I should have made a move but scared not to **** up the situation. Any advice damn I'm sounding real afcish.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BluEyes

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I feel that I should have made a move but scared not to **** up the situation.
It's a self-fulfilling prophesy.

Who cares if you blow it? You already know you're acting afc.

Either move on her, or move on. The longer you wait, the further you fall.
 

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If you DON'T make a move, there will be no situation to fvck up. She will lose interest in you. She could still be "friends" with you, but that means no pvssy for you my friend. But, from my experience, if a woman really wants to bone you and you don't, she won't be friends with you anymore, because she can't stand that fact that you turned her down sexually.
 

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I think I just need to make a move hopefully I aint **** it up already.
 

xomel

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well it sounds like you already know what has to be done... just do it when you feel comfortable doing so :) maybe knowing that you might lose your chance if you dont do something soon will make you feel more comfortable making a move.

its better to do it when you can do it confidently than rush it or do it sloppy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LMS's knuckles hits 18 year old kid's head repeatedly - all girls are seeking relationships - they never want to be alone!!!


DA KID said:
...she really likes me but doesn't want to be in a relationship because of past relationships and she wants to take things slow.
When a girl say this it means she has been "fvcked? over (figuratively and literally) by other pimps.... because she is a hor!!!!!
 
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