i figured out my problem when it comes to girls, i..f**king..supplicate to them!!!! idk but i was always a a nice person, and when it comes to girls, even if thier my friends, i treat them like queens, i guess i thot that was the way to get them to like you but i was dead wrong, cuz i was thinking, if i do all the nice stuff now, when i do get in a relationship, what do i have left nice to do?? but idk y, i always supplicate to girls like a friggin dumass cuz i have a stupid mindset that thinks "oh if ur not nice, they wont like you" so i end up being too nice and they still dont like me, im wut u wuld call a Super AFC.....HWELPP!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wtf is wrong with me? oh i got it..
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
kraytkiller
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All this time. All these posts. And your still retarded.
Have you read the DJ Bible? If so, read it again. If not, why didn't you? You don't seem to be comprehending most of it -- the solutions to your problem would most likely be easily found by reading the bible or searching the forums.
But...Pretending like I actually believe you did that...I'll give you some advice...Against my better judgement...
Why are you supplicating to them? Do you think It'll make them like you? If so, forget that. Completely wrong. Only be nice if the situation heavily calls for it. Instead of being nice, try to be ****y and Funny. Joke around with them instead. Pretend it's your new way of being nice.
Have you read the DJ Bible? If so, read it again. If not, why didn't you? You don't seem to be comprehending most of it -- the solutions to your problem would most likely be easily found by reading the bible or searching the forums.
But...Pretending like I actually believe you did that...I'll give you some advice...Against my better judgement...
Why are you supplicating to them? Do you think It'll make them like you? If so, forget that. Completely wrong. Only be nice if the situation heavily calls for it. Instead of being nice, try to be ****y and Funny. Joke around with them instead. Pretend it's your new way of being nice.
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Stop supplicating motherf**ker! Stop treating women like f**kin' queens and f**kin' princesses! God Dammmit!
What you need to do is treat women like normal people, rich, poor, pretty, ugly. Treat them all the same. When you talk to a pretty girl, imagine her without her makeup.
Just be playful and stop kissing a woman's ass! Don't become a woman's doormat/ servant. Play it so that you're the king and she's the peasant.
What you need to do is treat women like normal people, rich, poor, pretty, ugly. Treat them all the same. When you talk to a pretty girl, imagine her without her makeup.
Just be playful and stop kissing a woman's ass! Don't become a woman's doormat/ servant. Play it so that you're the king and she's the peasant.