"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wtf is with these pedo girls lately!?

tony-montana

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in the past month i've met two girls who have gone out with or liked younger guys than them. one girl was 20 and was dating a 16 year old. she broke up with him though... another girl she's 20 too and the guy she likes is ALSO 16... wtf?

her: do u think i'm weird if i like a 16 year old

her: is that being a pediphile or however u spell it

me: yeah, that's a bit weird.

her: omg

her: so if a 30 year old guy likes me is that weird

me: yes. do you like a 16 year old?

her: what if i like a 30 year old

me: whats all this pedo talk?

her: yeh hahaha

me: are you serious. you like a 16 year old?

her: no

me: yeah you do

me: why you askin me all these things?

her: ptth who knows

her: it just came up

her: forget about it

me: thats strange.

her: whateverrrrrrrrrr

me: so who is he

her: NOYB

me: you pedo

her: i'm no pedo


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any opinions of this? is it normal or is it really sick. i mean guys date younger girls all the time... i dunno.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Microphone Fiend

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no its not sick, its women dating younger boys. 20 yr old guy dating a 16 yr old girl is assumed to be pushing it, but the reason is because the guy is assumed to be more experienced and educated on love and life, but if the dude is 16 yrs old pullin 20 yr olds, I would think that he can handle his own and is doing something right? Gender double standard I got...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Randallpink83

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last year when I was 23 I got with a 43yr old woman... who had a daughter about my age.. hahaha.. but never thought it was too weird.. She was recently divorced and going out partying at all the hot spots here in Arizona. I was glad for her to be having fun... Didn't mind at all to help :rockon:

damn she was a milf.. french dancer!

....It was a fun experience, but I prefer girls my age.
 

Randallpink83

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.....by the way, she used to always talk about how I would be the perfect match for her daughter and always said I should meet her... haha ok whatever.. "Hi im randy, i've been having sex with your mom! want to go out?"
 
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