I have been here for about a year, this site was the first place I ever found and still one of the best places for info. most, if not all of the threads here, even the 7+ year old ones, still contain great information. Like most of you, I have checked out a lot of the so-called gurus and seduction material out there. It seems that everyday something new comes out that claims to be better than everything else out there. Some of these programs have 10+ cds, books, etc. From what I have heard, it's all the exact same garbage said over and over and over again. I am wondering a few things. Do people who buy these things actually believe there is something in there that they have never heard before? And, do these gurus think that they are really coming up with something new or just preying on people's naivety? Have any of you guys learned something from the million plus programs that you haven't learned here?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WTF is with all the "Seduction Material"?
- Thread starter Drewskie
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
I have only bought a few actual products (The Sex God Method, Practical Female Psychology, and Manual of Seduction - all of which i had got for free and felt they were such high quality that i had to buy them to support). I mostly use a certain "database" to get mostly everything out there for free. I believe that most people who buy they products are not people who are familiar with the seduction community (sites like here, rsd, and fast seduction have all the info you'll ever need for free!) I think most people who do buy materials online - are 1st time exposed.... OR people who are just obsessed with information gathering...Drewskie said:. Do people who buy these things actually believe there is something in there that they have never heard before?
There's a handful of people who do have different ideas and are constantly crafting new ways to approach and get women. They do it as a job though, they live it. I actually think they CAN come up with new stuff and they do. HOWEVER the large bulk of these ebooks/programs out there just rehash already known information and rewrite it in their own words (sometimes they don't even go that far).Drewskie said:And, do these gurus think that they are really coming up with something new or just preying on people's naivety?
I learn way more from psychology/biology books and studies than i do from pua/seduction material. But there's some good stuff out there. But then again... You can get just about every pickup theory ever thought to be good as well as every one that has ever failed by going here: http://fastseduction.com/archives/Drewskie said:Have any of you guys learned something from the million plus programs that you haven't learned here?
It is an industry. The Internet allows anyone with a few dollars to become a guru (via self-publishing and a website). Getting a beautiful girl is pretty simple. So is not being a fat slob. Yet the diet industry is filled with expensive programs to get you slim and fit. I won't even get into America's love for self-help products.
In other words, MONEY. Write that down. MONEY. Again. MONEY. Everything pretty much comes around to that one word. That includes getting the girl of your dreams. Remember. MONEY. Wars are waged for? Freedom? Wrong. MONEY. That is the most valuable tip on here. It all comes around to money. Right or wrong. That one word is the "how" and "why" to just about everything.
In other words, MONEY. Write that down. MONEY. Again. MONEY. Everything pretty much comes around to that one word. That includes getting the girl of your dreams. Remember. MONEY. Wars are waged for? Freedom? Wrong. MONEY. That is the most valuable tip on here. It all comes around to money. Right or wrong. That one word is the "how" and "why" to just about everything.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
The dating business might be the easiest to market because there are so many desperate men out there that want to get their d1ck wet and will believe just about anything that they are fed, and then there's the thousands of "dating gurus" that see this and try to cash in with their bullsh1t. Quite ironically two of the three books that helped me the most, one of them isn't a dating book but a book on self improvement (How To Make Great Conversation And Small Talk), and the other is written by a woman (Guy Gets Girl).
The way society is structured nowadays means there is a large market for this stuff. Women have sexual freedom. Lots of women want to sleep with a small number of men and many other men end up with limited options. So they turn to the seduction "gurus".
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I completely understand that all of these guys are looking for a quick buck, and it is very simple to throw a book together and market the hell outta it online. I just don't see how they can make all these claims, "all new techniques, never seen before, revolutionary, the best, etc." when the 400 books before them said the same thing. I mean, 10 cd's for "ultimate natural game". I think that the books that have nothing to do with the seduction industry are the only helpful ones out there. However, since there a million of them, I have probably only scratched the surface.