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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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WTF is up with this winking?

backbreaker

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Man, there is this chick at where I am staying, she is somewhat cute, but that's not the point... she is not "my type" and I will leave it at that, so I won't approach her... but she is the assistant manager in the building I stay in and we are pretty cool. But every damn sentence she says to me she winks. I mean, every time.

WTF does winking mean?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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snobby

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My psychologist used to do that to me lmao. She kept blinking for no reason while talking to me...if that isn't a bad habit, then I don't know what the f**k it is.
 

flippinfreak

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I used to boink a chick who had a glass eye, couldn't tell if she was looking at the guy in front or, at me, the first time I met her.

Ignore the winking, it means nothing, unless of course you are inviting it:p

What is it they say... control the frame, or the frame controls you?
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Tazman

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lol, I'm surprised your asking this question backbreaker. She wants you, no doubt. Since I read a lot about signs of interest I've been picking up on more things that women do when they like you. Very recently I've changed jobs and my new supervisor (female) just out of the blue started winking at me after she'd say something and one time I was walking in her general direction and as soon as I looked at her she winked then looked away. I've had the "wink" done before by another woman also.

If she wasn't my supervisor I'd love to practice on her, but that's another story.
 

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Maybe she was eating a bit of grapefruit and it squirted into her eye and now she involuntarily winks at the most inappropriate times.
 

DJDamage

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The other day I had a chick wink and smile at me while I was walking down the street and she was riding in the passenger seat of a car with her man driving and he was completley oblvious to what she was doing.If I am ever going to be driving with a chick whom I am seeing and she starts winking at some random guy I am going to drop her right there in front of him tell her to get out, tell the guy that she likes anal and drive away.

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