"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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WTF is up with this winking?

backbreaker

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Man, there is this chick at where I am staying, she is somewhat cute, but that's not the point... she is not "my type" and I will leave it at that, so I won't approach her... but she is the assistant manager in the building I stay in and we are pretty cool. But every damn sentence she says to me she winks. I mean, every time.

WTF does winking mean?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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snobby

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My psychologist used to do that to me lmao. She kept blinking for no reason while talking to me...if that isn't a bad habit, then I don't know what the f**k it is.
 

flippinfreak

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I used to boink a chick who had a glass eye, couldn't tell if she was looking at the guy in front or, at me, the first time I met her.

Ignore the winking, it means nothing, unless of course you are inviting it:p

What is it they say... control the frame, or the frame controls you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tazman

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lol, I'm surprised your asking this question backbreaker. She wants you, no doubt. Since I read a lot about signs of interest I've been picking up on more things that women do when they like you. Very recently I've changed jobs and my new supervisor (female) just out of the blue started winking at me after she'd say something and one time I was walking in her general direction and as soon as I looked at her she winked then looked away. I've had the "wink" done before by another woman also.

If she wasn't my supervisor I'd love to practice on her, but that's another story.
 

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Maybe she was eating a bit of grapefruit and it squirted into her eye and now she involuntarily winks at the most inappropriate times.
 

DJDamage

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The other day I had a chick wink and smile at me while I was walking down the street and she was riding in the passenger seat of a car with her man driving and he was completley oblvious to what she was doing.If I am ever going to be driving with a chick whom I am seeing and she starts winking at some random guy I am going to drop her right there in front of him tell her to get out, tell the guy that she likes anal and drive away.

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