Wtf is up with this situation?

[Magic8ball]

I know there are gonna be those on here who criticize in what I'm about to post. I live in America and the women in USA are flakey and self absorbed and most of them will cheat on their boyfriends or husbands.

Ok so, I like to get laid been there done that but that's not what is important to me. I want more than meaningless sex.

So I been going out, also even have a dating profile. Fie the dating profile, I don't wrote my whole life story, I hate online dating because it's been pretty useless to me because I can initiate conversation and even get a number but when I try to set a date they flake out then I hear they quickly went on a date with someone else so, these women are just bored and want a guy to pay their way. So I stopped paying for dates! Also I stay from particular women online as well. I've met a drughead and felon and a few crazies from this dating app. I refuse to water money on there because I been unsuccessful. That's pretty much my situation online. These women complain about men being creeps or looking to get laid yet they do the same thing guys do!

So my problem in meeting women offline like in bars, stores and social gatherings us a different story. I seem to attract women who are repulsive or women who are married or already in a relationship! It's always sane thing! For example I went to a bar she came in with her dad which he's cool from what I can tell. But she was keep flirting with me and touching me and even told the dj all the songs I'm really into and wanted to buy me drinks. I even have her number she immediately called my phone so I would have it. One problem, she's married, but she said she's extremely unhappy in it so I don't know. Same age as me. She tried to get me to go home with her. Seriously. ..I didn't go because I wasn't about the sex. So right now next day. I received no text from her, and I'm not gonna text her. But I'm tired of women in general act like they are really into me then next day does a complete 360. That drives me absolutely crazy. It's no wonder I'm very well guarded. Treated like **** a the time.

So here's me: I'm 38 years old blond hair blue eyes. I'm average built. I'm not ugly but I'm an extrovert and I'm not shy at all. I'm a fun person, I'm also loyal and caring. But I'm not "nice" per se. I'm self sufficient for most part. So I lived in Florida for 4 years I moved back to Texas this year. I ended up in a car accident June 19, it was a tragedy and I'm lucky to be alive. It was bad and currently I'm still in recovery in a wheelchair. Not paralyzed but yeah. I'm not looking for a woman to take care of me or anything like that.

So I'm having difficulty in arousing excitement that she wants to be with me and not gonna give up and knows she wants me.

So I hope this is enough to analyze and receive feedback or advice would be awesome.

Thanks!

 

[Focal core]

Hi there, so sorry to hear on what you're facing right now. there's a lot of man that having same problem with you in U.S. My advised consider to move to mid eastern/east country if you're looking for traditional meaningful relationship. marriage in U.S are at time low about 30% last year due to the epidemic of hookup culture destroying the purpose of relationship.

finding a good women in us is like 1 from 10000 if youre lucky, its over until things changes (law,feminisme etc) consider an escort would be a good option too if you dont want the hassle dealing with somebody elses wife/GF.

 

[2Rocky]

currently I'm still in recovery in a wheelchair. Not paralyzed but yeah. I'm not looking for a woman to take care of me or anything like that.

That's a big pill for a woman to swallow at first impression. Things will get better as you recover. We take mobility for granted, and I think that's a good conversation topic when you meet women. It's also a good opener.... Don't worry, it's temporary....Everything still works...I'm just healing... Feel like playing Nurse? " with a wink and a laugh. Don't TRY to attract women and the good ones will make themselves evident...

You will sort out the selfish, surface women fast...just don't take it so seriously....