WTF is up with the 3day wait period?

[slickaz]

Who invented this?
where did it come from?

why does it affect my life!!!

i got a chics number on saturday at a party, i hooked up with her and got head didnt bust... we went back in and partied then i went my way because my friends wanted to go to the clubs.

im in my car with the dudes in it backing out and her friends and her standing on the deck of the house scream out "hey driver...nice car!"

so i say "thanks..but i aint just a driver..i run this b1tch!"
she comes up to me and gives me her number written on a napkin.
i say ill hit u up and back out of the driveway.

i couldnt hit her up sunday..
and i hit her up monday with a text coz i was so busy at work i got home at 9pm.
no reply.
word gets around in my circle and i hear from a friend who laughs at me saying" hahaha mr eager ****** been hittin chics up before the 3 day wait..she thinks u creepy for hittin her before the 3day incubation period."

im like wtf?!

u need an incubation period to hit someone you met at a party now?

i mean i know of the 3day wait period..but i didnt think it was serious and a rule!...what happened to dudes that break rules..and liking them! damn!

that was some gooood head too..i wanna know which college she learnt that skill from!

 

[Solomon]

Who invented this?
where did it come from?

why does it affect my life!!!

i got a chics number on saturday at a party, i hooked up with her and got head didnt bust... we went back in and partied then i went my way because my friends wanted to go to the clubs.

im in my car with the dudes in it backing out and her friends and her standing on the deck of the house scream out "hey driver...nice car!"

so i say "thanks..but i aint just a driver..i run this b1tch!"
she comes up to me and gives me her number written on a napkin.
i say ill hit u up and back out of the driveway.

i couldnt hit her up sunday..
and i hit her up monday with a text coz i was so busy at work i got home at 9pm.
no reply.
word gets around in my circle and i hear from a friend who laughs at me saying" hahaha mr eager ****** been hittin chics up before the 3 day wait..she thinks u creepy for hittin her before the 3day incubation period."

im like wtf?!

u need an incubation period to hit someone you met at a party now?

i mean i know of the 3day wait period..but i didnt think it was serious and a rule!...what happened to dudes that break rules..and liking them! damn!

that was some gooood head too..i wanna know which college she learnt that skill from!

dawg don't even worry about it man, one thing I learned from a DJ here can't remember the life of me is, that when you get a chicks # to have her text you letting her know she made it home alright, now that can kill intrest or whatever. **** if i was you, i woulda hit her up the next day, wondering if i could get more of that scully!!

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

3 day rule is BS.
Call when you want.
If she's into you then it don't matter.

If she's not into, well..., will she be any more into you 3 days from now?

 

[slickaz]

Solomon...Word!! that sounds like it might just work..

haha..man! thats the only reason i hit her up on monday.i wanted more of it.. i thought id invite her out to check out the insides of the whip since she likes it so much.. then BLAM! but...i might have to wait abit and play this one a little sneaky.

 

[Cashew]

I've never been a fan of any "wait to call" period of time. Guys who are slaves to rules like that have a lot to learn.

Rules can help you get into a mindset when you're new to being a DJ or recovering from being AFC. But once you've got youself down, you don't need the rules to have the right attitude as now it's just a part of who you are.

 

[Lexington]

It's not a rule that is set in stone. Basically, the intent is to avoid appearing desperate. A lot of AFCs call/text the girl as soon as possible. That makes them come off desperate/clingy.

 

[slickaz]

yeh but i mean genuine DJs are not despo, they just hit a chic up when they can..i hit her up when i could because otherwise i probably wouldnt have the time.

i mean all this drama to get some head!!!! when are they gonna invent that pill that you feed a chic and booooom!! no drama

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

I usually only wait 1 day to call.

 

[f283000]

its not the 3 day wait period rule you have to follow, its the 2 STRIKES AND NEXT B|TCH RULE that matters.

Whether it be calling them or asking them out, if you don't get an answer by the second call...NEXT B|TCH! if you don't get a date by the second time you ask...NEXT B|TCH!

you can call her anytime you want but it is common sense to make em wait at least till the next day you meet em. You don't want to be calling them an hr after you met em.

 

[The Inside Man]

I completely disagree with the 3 day rule, like the other guys said, don't make it a rule call her when you want.

However , I am a huge fan of the 2 strikes rule and think it should be used any time the girl doesn't return 2 calls, two texts, a call and a text, etc in the early stages of dating. But I would wait a week to see if they would return the call before "strikeout" and deleting the #.

 

[On_the_Top]

3 day waiting period, yeah I completely disagree with it, when I go down to the gun store I want to purchase my gun NOW! not later.

Ohh...females.

Well from what I can tell you, waiting to call, you have to play it by ear. Sometimes you have to wait, some times you don't.