"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WTF is up with people ie generally women

derby1

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ive got women ive got plates this isnt the issue

I cant get over this new spin on things thats getting worse

I find it weird as Fck, when people initiate with me to START WITH

*we build rapport EVEN SPK on the phone, take mind the time being wasted/there time aswell.....

arrange a date and come the 24 hours before the date they totally vanish YET THEY PUT THE EFFORT IN originally !!!!!!!

WTF id rather have a lie they cant make it, i know one had to stop in with her kid cause i know the neighbour, so there was no better offer......hows about a quick "courtesy cancel"

could understand if i was the 80% chaser pest

and its not just dates a woman pestered and pestered for my washing machine and pestered more.........even called the night before supposed collection, NEVER TURNED UP on the day not a flinch, not even a fck you and fck your washing machine pmsl

i understand this has always gone on but good god its snowballing and actually making me cba with women... as soon as my phone pings







 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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find it as weird as fck though when they initiate and put most the effort in
 
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