wtf is up with KINO being the new magic technique?

[Boner da Stoner]

Everywhere I turn now, the first piece of advice that is given to new Don Juans is, KINO!!!! Massive KINO, more and more, escalate the KINO!!!

Why?

I don't know if you have ever noticed, but KINO in a normal, public, cold approach(the gold standard of approaches) is an indicator, and rarely escalates to full seduction. There are many other steps that are followed first, and many other methods that can be played.

It all depends on the situation, with KINO it escalates the situation only if she is open to touch, some girls start to shrug you off immediately after feeling the contact no matter how subtle, than have to be warmed up through words and comfort.

Gah, too tired for this, I just want the KINO calls to stop coming in, they are getting disgustingly overused.

 

[\O/]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner

I don't know if you have ever noticed, but KINO in a normal, public, cold approach(the gold standard of approaches) is an indicator, and rarely escalates to full seduction. There are many other steps that are followed first, and many other methods that can be played.

I agree that going directly into kino on a cold approach may be persived as a little weird and creepy. I wouldn't go directly into kino after just having opened a girl or a set in public say in a mall or whatever.

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
It all depends on the situation, with KINO it escalates the situation only if she is open to touch, some girls start to shrug you off immediately after feeling the contact no matter how subtle, than have to be warmed up through words and comfort.

If you are going to get anywhere with a chick you have to initiate kino as soon as possible. If you are trying to pick up a girl in a bar for example you should kino her within the first few minutes. You have to kino-test her to see how open she is to touch. If she shrugs you off as you say, you use takebacks and freezeouts. You "punish" her and withdraws. Turn away from her and let her chase you. If she doesn't then go into normal rapportbuilding and kino-test her again. If she still resists, then eject and find another target.

If you don't start to kino a girl from the beginning it will become more of an "issue" and a big deal if you suddently leap into it. Therefore you have to start easy and use kino-escalation. With the kino you are actually building rapport. Using only words to build rapport will often put you right in the dreaded LJBF-zone...

Getting a girl comfortable with your touch and is essential if you plan on bonking her. THAT's why it's being stressed so much.
KINO is the easiest and fastest way to get laid if done correctly.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

KINO is the easiest and fastest way to get laid if done correctly.

that is the key that is not being posted, nobody is doing it correctly, they just say do the KINO, they don't say build up her interest and get her flared...

Using only words to build rapport will often put you right in the dreaded LJBF-zone...

but using words to build attraction is more powerful, what happens in a long distance PU? You cannot use KINO AT ALL!!!

 

[Distant Light]

I try to kino atleast 2-4 mins into kino. Don't want to get too into it but kino does actually work for everyone even on girls who don't like people touching her. (I've tested it many times) It also depends what type of kino it is, you wouldnt grab a girl from behind and embrace her when you first see her. I find if you don't kino when you try to go for the kiss its going to be like a big thing. Its like you don't touch her for first 3 days and then try to kiss her goodnight it aint gonna happen if so it would be rare.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

STFU boner.

 

[LeviathanIYG]

Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
STFU boner.

What he said!!!

 

[ScrewIt]

Re: Re: wtf is up with KINO being the new magic technique?

Originally posted by \O/
I agree that going directly into kino on a cold approach may be persived as a little weird and creepy. I wouldn't go directly into kino after just having opened a girl or a set in public say in a mall or whatever.

I've never initiated kino upon a cold approach, but i believe its possible. Usually i kino upon building rapport.
If the guy is good looking/charming with first impression, im pretty sure cold approach kino will often be successful.

What a lot of guys dont realize is that kino is an extremely powerful arsenal. Girls respond better to body language/action than they do words.

It varies from girl to girl, but some are so extremely sensitive to touch that their IL jumps 10 fold. with this girl in class, me and her usually talk but i never kinoed her. One day i just tapped her on the shoulder and she turned around and looked at me differently. The following day she asked me to coffee.

Certain chicks get kinoed so often by guys hitting on them, that they're just overdosed with oxytocin that it barely has an effect.
For a girl that's barely kinoed, and you kino her, it's like an overdose of drugs. If you're lucky sometimes this overdose can get them instantly wet.

There's innocent friendly kino, and there's intimate affection kino. If a girl's IL is high enough, she'll let you do the intimate kino.

But in most cases, it would be best to initiate kino early on. Or else you just end up in the LJBF zone. Girls will remember conversations (and you) better when you kino them.

My final piece of advice is: when you do start kino, start off light ..on the shoulder/arm/back. Dont go all out and put your arm around a girl unless you feel they wont be threatened by it.
This dude in one of my classes (he's a little cooky in the head if you ask me) he barely talks to these girls except once in a blue moon and the day he does talk to them, he goes all out (arm around shoulders/neck...poking them in the back with knuckles (some **** massage?) if i were them i'd definitely be freaked out.
but he doesnt get anywhere cause he doesnt build rapport, and just comes off as freaky/desperate.

So basically it has to come smoothly, steadily, confidently, and subconsciously. A quick 1 sec kino says "im afraid of my manlihood" , more than 5 secs says "im desperate to touch you"
friendly kino should last about 3 secs. Intimate kino can be as long as you want it to be.

 

[FRëSHURE]

Go pat a dog.
Go talk to a dog.

which time does the dog most enjoy with you?

Go pat a cat.
Go talk to a cat.

which time does the cat most enjoy with you?

Go pat a rabbit.
Go talk to a rabbit.

which time does the rabbit most enjoy with you?

Now I could go on forever. And you'll argue that those are animals are not comparable to humans.

A girl is just like a feral dog.

They are both intimidated by you, and will turn to there natural defences to avoid being near you.

Break those defences and patting (kino) is far more effective then talking.

 

[LeviathanIYG]

Nicely put FRëSHURE

 

[BuckwildNYC]

Ooooo I was wondering why my dog keeps humping my leg...... I gotta cut back on that KINO stuff a lil.

 

[DrMetallica]

Let's play a game of grab-ass

 

[Fender]

What is a girllfriend?

Girl+kino= girlfriend

(and sex of course...sex)