"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WTF is this?

KingRich

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Quick rundown of the situation....

Picked up a decent looking girl at a club about a month ago, and ended up at her place for the night for a crazy round of sex. I stay the night, and I don't call her as I'm thinking it's a one night stand.

About a month later, I run into her at the same club and she's with a stagette party. So she asks "why haven't you called"? To which I reply, I didn't really think you wanted me to. I actually DID want to call her so I promised I would. I leave for the night. I call her 5 days later and she returns my call the next day and leaves a message. I call back 3 days later, talk for 20mins and set the date and I get off the phone.

The date goes good, and I ended up bringing her back to my pad for another good round of sex and she stays the night.

I call her 3 days later and set up another date. Once again, the night ends up at her place and the usual happens. I then call her 3 days later and we speak for 20 mins. I get off the phone first, and tell her to call me when she gets back from a wedding she was going away for on the weekend. Sunday comes, no call. Tuesday happens to be my b-day, no call.... So I call the Wednesday as I'm getting a bit pissed off at this bird. I leave a message to call back.....still, no call.... :rolleyes:

WTF is up with this? Is this some sort of test? This bird seemed pretty solid up until this week....she never seemed to want to get off the phone, always accepted my dates and returned my calls up until now.

Although I dig this chick, I am planning on deep sixing this broad if I do not hear back from her in a couple more days.

Any words of wisdom? :down:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJDamage

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This girl is not a relationship material type. She sounds like a typical club rat.

You got yourself a short term fvck buddy on your hands. When she wants to have sex, that is when she will call you. She doesn't care about your b-day or anything about you. If you don't mind being a booty call, just wait for her to call you. You will get sex but nothing else.

If you do mind, tear up her number and go out there and find yourself a decent girl.
 

KingRich

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Originally posted by DJDamage
This girl is not a relationship material type. She sounds like a typical club rat.

You got yourself a short term fvck buddy on your hands. When she wants to have sex, that is when she will call you. She doesn't care about your b-day or anything about you. If you don't mind being a booty call, just wait for her to call you. You will get sex but nothing else.

If you do mind, tear up her number and go out there and find yourself a decent girl.
I needed that as sometimes it's difficult to see on the inside..

This could be a problem then...I actually only thought of it as a one night stand, but then I started to get interested in this chick.... Sex is great with her, but maybe I'd end up getting to attached...

Perhaps the write off is the best route on this one....

Thanks man...
 
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