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wtf is their problem....its pissing me off....

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Aight so these two girls I know call me today. Same time...they pass around the phone. Anyway, their always tryin to find out who I like cuz I never tell anyone and I really don't like anyone right now. But then they're like:

girl 1: Hey AFK you busy saturday night?
me: lemme check.....nah, doubt it, but ill be real busy in the morning till 3.
girl 1: ok cuz girl 2 wants to go out with you.
me: she can ask for herself
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GIRL 2 COMES ON
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girl 2: hey afk are you busy saturday night?
me: YES I AM BuSY.
girl 2: um...girl 1 wants to go out with you.
me: ....i just said I was busy dammit...

BLAH BKAH BLAH

WTF IS THEIR PROBLEM?!?! do they just like playin with me? they think I'm some sort of amusement? **** that! please help me let them know that im not a ****ing toy and they need to find a chump, cuz my time is valuable. ......man i swear ppl are crazy these days.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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that happened to me once. this girl and her friend i knew kept calling me late at night and annoying the hell outta me. i just told them to fuk off and hung up.
 
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Yea, well I can't really do that....cuz they're friends...who have a ****load of other friends including boyfriends....who can turn **** against me real fast...high school is a ****ing battleground man. And you can't just break off alliances, such as this one, in a split second.

Any other suggestions? TY for your input Tails.
 
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one possibility is that they both like you.. and here's the possible scenario:

girl 1: do you like AFK?
girl 2: yea
girl 1: damn you.. me too!
girl 2: really?
girl 1: yeah.. but whatever.. lemme call him and ask him out for you!
girl 2: no!
girl: too late! *rings*

girl 1: Hey AFK you busy saturday night?
AFK: lemme check.....nah, doubt it, but ill be real busy in the morning till 3.
girl 1: ok cuz girl 2 wants to go out with you.
AFK: she can ask for herself

girl 2: OMG YOU *****! Gimme the phone!

girl 2: hey afk are you busy saturday night?
AFK: YES I AM BuSY.
girl 2: um...girl 1 wants to go out with you.
AFK: ....i just said I was busy dammit...


:D :D :D
 
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Originally posted by deeloo
one possibility is that they both like you.. and here's the possible scenario:

girl 1: do you like AFK?
girl 2: yea
girl 1: damn you.. me too!
girl 2: really?
girl 1: yeah.. but whatever.. lemme call him and ask him out for you!
girl 2: no!
girl: too late! *rings*

girl 1: Hey AFK you busy saturday night?
AFK: lemme check.....nah, doubt it, but ill be real busy in the morning till 3.
girl 1: ok cuz girl 2 wants to go out with you.
AFK: she can ask for herself

girl 2: OMG YOU *****! Gimme the phone!

girl 2: hey afk are you busy saturday night?
AFK: YES I AM BuSY.
girl 2: um...girl 1 wants to go out with you.
AFK: ....i just said I was busy dammit...


:D :D :D
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I'd love it to be that way deeloo, but they're like best friends...and they did this **** before. They just play games with me and I know it. What I need is a way to let them know to cut their crap. But (look 2 posts up) as I said, there are things to consider.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dude why dont you take them both out and make them fight for your love:)



-mike
 
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Oh yea! Great idea....except they're kidding.....

They both have online journals and talk about the guys they like and they have names....different from mine....and they do stuff.....that I don't do.....

I know its a joke. I just told them that I'm a busy guy and I don't have time for their prank calls. Otherwise, if they do it again, I'm gonna be real bogus and be like, "uh huh...what? I can't hear you!!?? hello1?!?!? YOU'RE BREAKING UP I II I I CCNAANNANNN ACANNNT HHEEARHEAR YOOU U!!!" ::hangs up::

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I don't know about this situation but when two friends have liked me in the past they were more like cats when it came to me than two girls joking around. Maybe the girl #2, not the girl that actually called you, likes you. I wouldn't thinkt hey are calling you as a joke. If you don't show any affection to them they probably are serious about it. If you are all over them and call them they may lead you on for a joke but if you mind your own business and they come to you it seems to me there's some attraction.

You said you were only busy until 3, that means after 3 they could go out with you. Then you turn around and say that you're busy.

Maybe you could say you dont' think of them that way.
 
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You should've been like:
"really? why don't you two come over my place saturday night and wrestle for my love"
in a ****ing + funny way.

They're both looking for ****s and giggles, that's why they're teasing you.
You should just play there game for a bit (playing C+F is never a bad thing), and if you get bored. Tell them you have to go and hang up.
 

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