Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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k201

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Hey guys just wanted to say whats up. I just found out about SS and looking forward to learning a lot here!

Now with that being said, I've been having some problems recently that have been FREAKING ME OUT. I am a freshman at college. Only had sex once btu have dry fVcked plenty of girls. Now I've been hooking up wiht this girl for about a week. We haven't done aything but make out so far but w/e thats fine. Now the problem I'm having is as were dry humping I've been pre-ejaculating. I have just been getting excited very easily. Now after the first time of busting I've been fine but its usually always me busting atleast once while were dry humping. This has NEVER happend to me EVER. I'm starting to get a little worried. What do you guys think I should do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grimple

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Well first off, why are you JUST having dry sex? Has she personally told you she doesn't want to have sex? If not, then just go for it. And by go for it I mean, grow some balls and while you are making our touch her boobs and play with them, then slick your hand up her shoot and do it some more. See her reactions and play off of them.. if she likes it take off her shirt.. blah blah. You know the rest. That is pretty much how sex happens.. you should know this.

Remember. It's always better to push the envelope and atleast TRY and being told to stop, rather than being a ***** and only getting so far (like making out) because you are too worried she would be offended if you touch her boobs or try to have sex with her.

And if she does tell you to stop, or takes your hand of her chest etc.. don't take it personally. Believe it or not.. not all girls are horny immoral *****es that have sex on the first date. So just respect them and leave it at that. Get involved, have it happen later.. or move on. Your choice.

Hope I helped some.
 

k201

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I know that lol...Shes on her period and I've just been getting with her for a short amount of time. I'm just wondering why now, my first year in college, am I starting to do this? This HAS NEVER happend to me before and I'm starting to get a little worried.
 

OMGWTF

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Talk to a doctor. Maybe you have something wrong with your **** 'n' ball set.
 

zerocelcius

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Your TOO damn horny!!!

It is like pee you can't just hold it in it has to go somwhere! Get on that release valve.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hitman10000

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Alright, time to stop dry humping and get some real action going. Remember to wrap up.
 
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