“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WTF has happened to my c0ck!!!

bilboteabaggins

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been seeing a new girl for the past few weeks, been getting closer and closer to getting down to business the past lil bit

3 days ago we decided to get down, my c0ck decided it wasn't the time, she would blow me and very well at that but as soon as she stopped and I was gonna put it in boner was gone

fast forward to the next night, only this time I could not get hard at all, just dead

last night we tried again and played around for like 4 hours straight, her giving me bj's and me eating/fingering her, things were good, I decide to slip it in and it goes limp on me once again

I mean what the fvck?

all 3 times I end up finishing her with my oral skills:rockon: she says it is awesome but is screaming the entire time for me to put my c0ck in her, begging for it and it just isn't happening:mad:

I am really into this girl, she is so sweet and lovely and is a 18 year old 8 hottie that 200 guys are after, she says I must not be into her and that is why my c0ck is dead when I get ready to bang her, I easily get hard on the bjs and even just touching her in public

I am so beyond frustrated, my confidence is getting destroyed day by day

help me out with this guys, I think I should get some viagra to get things on the way and maybe this will subside:confused:

shes a keeper, poonani so tight you can't shove in 2 fingers, I love her to death, this is going to destroy things I am affraid
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dear Billy,
You did not tell us if you had been indulging in alcohol,how tired were you?...my suggestion is to pop along to your Doctor,tell him your story tell him you want the little Blue pill...when you have it always keep one in your Wallet for times like like last night.
 

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not been sleeping much and tired from work, I am pretty healthy, workout lifting twice a week, watch my diet, although of late has been poor

no alcohol at all, my sex drive just doesn't feel up to snuff as of late, since seeing new girl have cut all porn and jerking

girl says I turn her on like nothing she has ever seen, she gets dripping wet just from making out with me for 2 mins, so this must end ASAP hahaha...she is constantly giving me boners throughout the day and insists on blowing me every time we are in a car(and she is freaking amazing at it), that may be part of the problem, but damn I am 27, ought to be up to all this

think the blue pill would help me with this?

thanks guys
 

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I think you're having foreplay too long. If you make out for four hours your attention might start to drift. If she's wet after two minutes, try giving it to her then while you're still fresh.
 

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This sounds more of a mental issue, something is holding you back.

Have a think, is there anything niggling away at you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bilboteabaggins

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im nervous with her, simple as that, getting more and more open though in attempts to ease things up, did all kinds of stuff last night in full lights on living room with a movie playing, said she has never done that before(demands total darkness), the johnson just didn't want to behave :( she doesn't like kinky stuff, hates porn and talking dirty, she is dripping wet and begging me to stick it in her though I mean WTF

this is killing me mentally, can't handle it, my morning wood has vanished even, I mean rock hard c0ck that hurt every morning
 

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anxiety, stress. not getting enough rest. maybe you just need a vacation from work to recharge your batteries.
 

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I've been known to lose my erection sometimes during sex, even with the total hottie I've gotten with recently the last time we had sex I went limp after 10 minutes or so.

Sometimes it just happens. Its purely psychological. Are you masturbating too much?

Keep in mind, pharma companies make drugs to treat this condition...
 

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I have the encountered the same problems. On our age, it is most likely a mental thing. Because, I suppose, you don't have any problems getting boners or orgasms when looking at porn. But when you are going to finish the job, you can't perform, right?

That's some kind of performance anxiety. Thinking about it will only make it worse. I'd try either two things:

1. Talk with the girl about this, get more comfortable.

2. Get a pill, to create a 'kick start' to get your confidence back.
 

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I have gotten the girl to be way more comfortable and the last time we tried it almost happened but I still lost him, much better than the 1st try, but still not there

I wanna lay it on this girl hard and heavy, time for the pill, someone please PM me with info on how/where to buy them, very healthy guy so I have no insurance and just pay for complete doc checks twice a year, I doubt her writing me a prescription for it anyways, she is a doctor that hates medications and is very strict with them

and I need a vacation bad, haven't had one in 3 years :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anxiety due to lack of experience, porn, insecurities etc. I was the same way in my early 20s. It's mostly mental bc you can get hard during foreplay but lose before sex. Work on your mental health.

Not I can get a hard-on and keep it for as long as I want.
 

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I went to a quack doctor and got a prescription for the V-pill. It allowed me to fvck until I got past that initial anxiety. I'm ready to come off it now, but it's kinda fun to fvck her while waiting for the viagra to kick in and go a second round :D
 

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Brownrice said:
Anxiety due to lack of experience, porn, insecurities etc. I was the same way in my early 20s. It's mostly mental bc you can get hard during foreplay but lose before sex. Work on your mental health.

Not I can get a hard-on and keep it for as long as I want.
thats it exactly man

need online sources for V, gonna use it sparingly until I regain my mojo :rockon:
 

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your just very exited and all the blood flow is through out your body and not you **** anymore
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tried it again last night, success, tore that ass up :rockon:, just calmed myself, had trouble a few times, just chilled out, got decent hard and went 4 or 5 times 10 mins each, never even jizzed :rockon:

all this and was gonna try viagra tomorrow from a friend, still going to as I think I could get even harder and bigger
 

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I have also noticed my sex drive is lower lately. I am 25, and have morning wood regularly, and np when i JO, but bring a girl in and after 5 min of sex im limp. Thing is I am not very nervous, so I dont know what do do mental health wise. I also noticed that I can never go for 5-6 times in a row, I just dont get hard after 2-3 times, which is annoying becuase at my age I know men that can go for many times in a row.

I dont really want to mess with chemical pills, but I want to be able to f*** all night long! Any herbal supps out there that work, or what are "mental" exercises I can do?
 

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I took a extenze and man it gave me a better hard on

I poured it to my girl again for 3 hours last night, **** was so big and hard it was hittin bottom in her, she made me stop it was hurting so bad lmao
 

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more extenze action, man that stuff is awesome, biggest hard-ons ever, throbbing almost painful, but it is messing with my load blowing, I fell like I am hovering around orgasm forever, really hard to go, of course this is awesome with my girl, but she says I am hurting her really bad


this was all nerves folks, nothing less, kinda glad I didn't try viagra lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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